Ever since i can remember ive always wanted to be JUST LIKE my sister. i think shes beautiful, got a wonderful personality and shes just amazing! Well this guy that my sister's dating told her that we are like exact oppoisites and we are nothing alike! thats like the worst thing i could ever hear! and my sister agrees! it almost feels like she doesnt like my personality (im prolly just being paranoid) but like people say that shes more outgoing and im more laid-back! i dont wanna be laid-back i want to BE my sister! everyone loves her and shes just a great person! no wonder i always lose my friends, never get a boyfriend or at least EVERYONE likes her better then me! all my friends want to hang out with HER or just i dont know! ive always wanted to be outgoing even if it wasnt just because its my sister but ive just always wanted to be her.
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Someone Told Me Im Really Diff. From My Sister
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Someone Told Me Im Really Diff. From My Sister
She's so big hearted
but not so remarkable
just an ordinary humble girl
expecting nothing as we may
to think it's a pretty person's worth
you are beautiful
and you'd better go show it
so go and look again
you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win
don't believe in living normal
just to satisfy demand
Well, if you wanna get free
and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart
you should own your lame and stand up tall
but not so remarkable
just an ordinary humble girl
expecting nothing as we may
to think it's a pretty person's worth
you are beautiful
and you'd better go show it
so go and look again
you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win
don't believe in living normal
just to satisfy demand
Well, if you wanna get free
and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart
you should own your lame and stand up tall
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thats great that you have someone to look up to.
my friend sounds like you.
her and her sister are complete opposites and she wants to look like her, and be as smart as her.
but i happen to like the different personalities of both of them. it makes them more interesting. it would make the world boring if each sister was the same.
but i do understand that you probably want the same things as her. how bout talking to your sister and tell you how you want to be like her and look like her. maybe she can help you out.
:luck: -audrey
my friend sounds like you.
her and her sister are complete opposites and she wants to look like her, and be as smart as her.
but i happen to like the different personalities of both of them. it makes them more interesting. it would make the world boring if each sister was the same.
but i do understand that you probably want the same things as her. how bout talking to your sister and tell you how you want to be like her and look like her. maybe she can help you out.
:luck: -audrey
And all the roads we have to walk along are winding
And all the lights that lead us there are blinding
There are many things that I would
Like to say to you
I don't know how
Because maybe
You're gonna be the one who saves me?
And after all
You're my wonderwall[/b]
And all the lights that lead us there are blinding
There are many things that I would
Like to say to you
I don't know how
Because maybe
You're gonna be the one who saves me?
And after all
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Re: Someone Told Me Im Really Diff. From My Sister
hey sweethelp
Thats awesome that your sister is your role model. Although i hate to break the news, you can't BE anyone else. You have to be YOU and be your own person. But, acting like your sister and acting alike and similar to her is fine. Just because someone says that you aren't like your sister, it doesnt mean its true. If your sister knew how much you love her and idolize her (does she?) then she may think differently. Just rememeber that if you think you are like her, then you are.
bye sweetie, if you need anything else i'm always here
much love. steph
Thats awesome that your sister is your role model. Although i hate to break the news, you can't BE anyone else. You have to be YOU and be your own person. But, acting like your sister and acting alike and similar to her is fine. Just because someone says that you aren't like your sister, it doesnt mean its true. If your sister knew how much you love her and idolize her (does she?) then she may think differently. Just rememeber that if you think you are like her, then you are.
bye sweetie, if you need anything else i'm always here
much love. steph
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Hi! I know what are you going through. Look, you don't really need to be your sister. Have you ever heard "Be yourself!" I agree with that. Doesn't matter what people say. You need to be yourself. If you think your sister is way better than you, maybe there's something that you can do way better than her, that's why God gives each people different abilities. You are different to everyone. Difference is a good thing. Picture a concert with each person who has an ability only at playing guitar, so who will play the other instruments? See what I mean? You can email me if you'd like to
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Re: Someone Told Me Im Really Diff. From My Sister
dont be ur sis. be u. if ppl dont like u for u fuck them! then there not true friends!
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~God created people in his own image; God patterned them after himself Genesis 1:27
~Stop judging others, and u will not be judged. Stop criticizing others, or it will all come back on u. Luke 6:37
~There are "friends" who destroy eachother but a real freind sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24
~A fool is quick tempered but a wise person stays calm when insulted. Proverbs 12:16
~The tounge is a small thing but what enormous damage it can do. James 3:5
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~Get rid of all bitterness...instead be kind to eachother Ephesians 4:31-32
God bless
Love in christ--chelsea
~God created people in his own image; God patterned them after himself Genesis 1:27
~Stop judging others, and u will not be judged. Stop criticizing others, or it will all come back on u. Luke 6:37
~There are "friends" who destroy eachother but a real freind sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24
~A fool is quick tempered but a wise person stays calm when insulted. Proverbs 12:16
~The tounge is a small thing but what enormous damage it can do. James 3:5
~Even if my father and mother abandon me the Lord will hold me close. Psalm 27:10
~Get rid of all bitterness...instead be kind to eachother Ephesians 4:31-32
God bless
Love in christ--chelsea
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aww....if you be yourself than people will like you. noone likes people who try to be carbon copys of someone else. it's okay to be yourself.
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but that star it doesn't shine
but that star it doesn't shine
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Re: Someone Told Me Im Really Diff. From My Sister
Hey its great that your sister is a role model for you. But just becuase one person said that your more laid-back then her and she is more outgoing doesnt mean a thing. You are like your sister but not exactly like her, which is a good thing because no two people are the same exact. And if all the people in the world were the same exact the world would be boring. So Im saying your family would be boring if you and your sister were exactly alike. And your perfect just the way you are and I hope you will always know that. I love ya soo much (nialw) hehe Nikki
I know that time wont change a thing
If we're all moving in slow motion
It's hard to catch up
When the world is weighing you down
Tomorrow is always a brand new day.
You're the one thats always there
You make me smile like no one else
When you cry I want to die
And when you hold me,
I get all choked up inside
I love Chad.
If we're all moving in slow motion
It's hard to catch up
When the world is weighing you down
Tomorrow is always a brand new day.
You're the one thats always there
You make me smile like no one else
When you cry I want to die
And when you hold me,
I get all choked up inside
I love Chad.