Someone Told Me Im Really Diff. From My Sister

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Someone Told Me Im Really Diff. From My Sister

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Ever since i can remember ive always wanted to be JUST LIKE my sister. i think shes beautiful, got a wonderful personality and shes just amazing! Well this guy that my sister's dating told her that we are like exact oppoisites and we are nothing alike! thats like the worst thing i could ever hear! and my sister agrees! it almost feels like she doesnt like my personality (im prolly just being paranoid) but like people say that shes more outgoing and im more laid-back! i dont wanna be laid-back i want to BE my sister! everyone loves her and shes just a great person! no wonder i always lose my friends, never get a boyfriend or at least EVERYONE likes her better then me! all my friends want to hang out with HER or just i dont know! ive always wanted to be outgoing even if it wasnt just because its my sister but ive just always wanted to be her.



maybe this is in the wrong forum! :( SORRY!
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thats great that you have someone to look up to. :)

my friend sounds like you.

her and her sister are complete opposites and she wants to look like her, and be as smart as her.

but i happen to like the different personalities of both of them. it makes them more interesting. it would make the world boring if each sister was the same.



but i do understand that you probably want the same things as her. how bout talking to your sister and tell you how you want to be like her and look like her. maybe she can help you out.



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hey sweethelp :)



Thats awesome that your sister is your role model. Although i hate to break the news, you can't BE anyone else. You have to be YOU and be your own person. But, acting like your sister and acting alike and similar to her is fine. Just because someone says that you aren't like your sister, it doesnt mean its true. If your sister knew how much you love her and idolize her (does she?) then she may think differently. Just rememeber that if you think you are like her, then you are.



bye sweetie, if you need anything else i'm always here

much love. steph
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Hi! I know what are you going through. Look, you don't really need to be your sister. Have you ever heard "Be yourself!" I agree with that. Doesn't matter what people say. You need to be yourself. If you think your sister is way better than you, maybe there's something that you can do way better than her, that's why God gives each people different abilities. You are different to everyone. Difference is a good thing. Picture a concert with each person who has an ability only at playing guitar, so who will play the other instruments? See what I mean? You can email me if you'd like to
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dont be ur sis. be u. if ppl dont like u for u fuck them! then there not true friends!
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aww....if you be yourself than people will like you. noone likes people who try to be carbon copys of someone else. it's okay to be yourself.
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Hey its great that your sister is a role model for you. But just becuase one person said that your more laid-back then her and she is more outgoing doesnt mean a thing. You are like your sister but not exactly like her, which is a good thing because no two people are the same exact. And if all the people in the world were the same exact the world would be boring. So Im saying your family would be boring if you and your sister were exactly alike. And your perfect just the way you are and I hope you will always know that. I love ya soo much (nialw) hehe :wub: Nikki :wub:
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