I just found out from my dad that my parents are getting a divorce. They've never had a good marriage since before I can even remember, but still, i don't know what to do with myself. I don't know what to think or do or say or anything. I'm just like numb and empty and hurt. And I have to take care of my mom now because my brother's in college and my mom has severe depression problems among other things and I don't know if I can do it and I don't want to be all alone and not see my dad because my mom is making it seem like I'm going to be spending all my time with her. She's so protective over me and my brother. And I don't know where my dad is going to live or if I'm going to have to move, and I'm scared and worried about my dad because he doesn't want to get the divorce at all. And I just feel so alone in all of this and I've just had the worst year of my entire life and now it just seems like it's only getting worse. I thought two deaths in one year was bad enough, but I guess my parents just have to get a divorce too. What the hell do I do?
~ Caroline
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I so know how you feel. I am going through the exact same thing right now. A couple people gave me come good advise when I asked almost the same questions you are. Try to find this same topic under family and friends and started by me, MyOwnPerson. Don't give up! PM me anytime and maybe we can find the answers together.
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omg.... I so know how you feel. My parents are legally seperated by dad still comes around and shit. But they are always talking about divorce. My mom wants one but my dad doesn't and they argue about it all the time. I hate it. I would live with my mom if they got divorced because its who I live with now. And I am 17 so I will be out of the house soon anyways. And I have had 3 deaths in my family in the last 8 months. Two of my grandmas died and a family friend. I don't really know what you can do. But if you don't want to live with your mom then you shouldn't have to. Talk to her and your dad and see what happens.
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