Bad Bad Encounter With Ex.......

[Barbies are Evil]

Jamie [5:42 PM]: yea

Jamie [5:42 PM]: i got one that wont treat me like shit

Heart7799 [5:42 PM]: you treated me like crap

Jamie [5:43 PM]: and im not sayin u did

Jamie [5:43 PM]: bullshit

Jamie [5:43 PM]: i never fuckin did

Jamie [5:43 PM]: i cared alot bout u

Heart7799 [5:43 PM]: b.s.!

Jamie [5:43 PM]: noo sry

Jamie [5:43 PM]: ur wrong

Jamie [5:43 PM]: u cant just face the truth

Heart7799 [5:43 PM]: jaime, leave me alone

Heart7799 [5:43 PM]: i'm serious

Jamie [5:43 PM]: erin leave me alone

Jamie [5:43 PM]: and im seriouse

Heart7799 [5:44 PM]: you immed me!

Heart7799 [5:44 PM]: i'm perfectly happy not talking to you

Jamie [5:44 PM]: so what cuz i thought u wouldnt be like this

Jamie [5:44 PM]: fine

Jamie [5:44 PM]: bye i miss talken 2 u

Heart7799 [5:44 PM]: well you thought wrong

Jamie [5:44 PM]: im not like u im sry

Jamie [5:44 PM]: yea i did

Jamie [5:44 PM]: u never even did like me

Jamie [5:45 PM]: at all

Jamie [5:45 PM]: that was all bullshit

Heart7799 [5:45 PM]: thats not true

Jamie[5:45 PM]: o yea

Jamie [5:45 PM]: not from what i heard with ur friends and friends from teenhelp

Jamie [5:45 PM]: so not all those ppl can lie

Jamie [5:45 PM]: i always cared bout

Jamie [5:45 PM]: u

Jamie [5:45 PM]: and this is what i got

Heart7799 [5:45 PM]: I cared about you too

Jamie [5:46 PM]: yea ok

Heart7799 [5:46 PM]: it just didn't work out

Jamie [5:46 PM]: well i dont know cuz all those ppl cant lie

Heart7799 [5:46 PM]: but that doesn't mean I didn't care....

Jamie[5:47 PM]: i just cant c y we cant be friends

Heart7799 [5:47 PM]: Jamie...its too hard....you don't understand me

Heart7799 [5:47 PM]: you tried hard to, but you don't

Jamie [5:47 PM]: god whats not to understand bout u

Heart7799 [5:48 PM]: how hard our relationship was for me

Heart7799 [5:48 PM]: I retreated into my shell

Jamie [5:48 PM]: that was a relationship diffrent from being friends

Heart7799 [5:48 PM]: ebcause it scared me

Jamie [5:48 PM]: well im sry if it did

Jamie [5:48 PM]: i cared bout u

Heart7799 [5:48 PM]: i can't be friends with you after that

Jamie [5:48 PM]: fine

Jamie [5:49 PM]: im sry i ever botherd u

Heart7799 [5:49 PM]: bye

Jamie [5:50 PM]: bye

Jamie signed off at 6:06 PM



Jamie is my ex boyfriend, Heart7799 is me

[Shwynsh]

Oh man.. the ex-problem.. fights suck so much..



sorry you had to have that..

[Barbies are Evil]

its just........I really did care about him. Like I said, I got scared. And now we can't even be friends. GRRR!

[CanadaCraig]

Hi Barbies are Evil!!



I'm sorry too. I know how you feel - though. I've been 'there'. No doubt - you've repeated that conversation - in your head - over and over again. AND have probably read and re-read the copied version - a countless number of times. But no matter how many times you go over it - it's still going to add up to the same thing. You and Jamie had a not-so-nice exchange of words. [not to mention 'feelings']



Give yourself some time with this. Don't rush to conclusions. Like any wound - it needs time to heal. And keep in mind that when people are hurting - they want to hurt back. That's just human nature. Is Jamie out of your life for good? Maybe. But if that's the case - you'll get on with your life - because that's what people do. And that's what you will do.



You are very special person. But being 'special' isn't going to protect you or save you from having some very awkward and uncomfortable moments in life. It's these 'moments' that help us to grow and become better people. It stinks - I know - but that's how it goes.



You'll be ok.



GREAT BIG HUG

Craig!!

[B_Lo]

that really must hurt cause im sure you cared for him a lot, its ridiculous how you can still care even when they hurt u

[Abbi]

Aww! Why can't you guys be friends? He really seems to want to..

[Shortie]

Been there, done that.

Ex's suck major big time...

Now where does he live...write it down while I find my pitch fork

[googlyeyeballs]

Reminds me of me and my ex long ago. Sounds like you guys had a good relationship end in a bad way. Can't always fix that sometimes got to move on and accept it as it is.

[night]

Yeah, some ex's just plain suck! Mine included!

[Carousel]

We'll, what happened exactly? Like what caused this?

[Barbies are Evil]

I heard that he asked every girl out while he was going out with me.......then recently I stupidly went back out with him, and he two timed me with his girlfriend he told me he broke up with.





ISN'T LOVE WONDERFUL?

[dragonangel(ash)]

i'm sorry this all happened to you.....we all been through it and you will soon find someone who will treat you right...but for now try to be friends and if that doesn't work then let past be past and go ut and meet new people

[sand]

I'm sorry, you know sometimes guys can really suck!! I understand the not being friends thing. I am not friends with any of my ex's and it took me years to just be normal around some of them. I still wouldn't be able to face some of them, and i have been with my current boyfriend for over two years. no mater how much he wants to be friends don't worry about it unless you can handle it and want to be friends. of not then to bad for him (sorry if that sounds mean i just don't think that someone should be guilted into something that obviously would make them uncomfortable) Ex's suck and if it hurts to much to be friends then don't worry about it. If you don't trust him it won't be a worth while friendship anyways.

[skaterGuy15]

I don't think being friends with him will work, to be honest. He treated you badly, why would you want to be friends with someone like that? You two DID care about each other a lot at one point, that's obvious, but you can't base a future relationship on how things were in the past. Sometimes you just need a clean break from someone. Maybe this is one of those times?

[b e a u t i f u l]

Aww....sorry hun.



I'm sure that talk was for the best though, you told him to leave you alone, and he did....so even though fighting with him hurt....It also kinda helped...



I hope.