Everything for your self esteem

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going to the mall ALWAYS makes people feel better :D

and Hersheys chocolate

yummy yummy yummy
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Thanks! You are totally right about cleaning your room ;)
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Wow those are good. I gotta remember them and use it. It could probably help me!
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say or doing all of those things doesnt do shat for me i still hate myself no matter what i do.-MARY
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thanks ill have to try those out especially the one about 3 things that people like about me.
She's so big hearted

but not so remarkable

just an ordinary humble girl

expecting nothing as we may

to think it's a pretty person's worth

you are beautiful

and you'd better go show it

so go and look again

you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win

don't believe in living normal

just to satisfy demand

Well, if you wanna get free

and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart

you should own your lame and stand up tall

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wow...that really works, thanks :)
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I tried looking at myself in the mirror this morning to find things that I liked about myself. I couldn't think of anything.
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wow those r great ideas...thanks
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Hey. If you cannot think of ANYTHING that you like about yourself perhaps it is time to CHANGE something about your appearance? You are probably not ugly! just in need of a re-vamp! Why not go to the hair dressers and get a fashionable new haircut? ask the hair dresser what style will suit your face shape.

Or maybe get yourself some new makeup and try a totally new look? there is something beautiful about everyone TRUST ME .. ask others and im sure they would be jealous of something you possess.

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Yeah some of those suggestions do work for me ( on good days lol) I find the tidy room one most effective. Some thing that helps me is painting one of my little fingers a vibrant colour like red. I take a lot of time getting it perfect and neat. This helps me feel happy when i'm at school because every now and again a see a quick flash of it and i remember it and it makes me feel happy ;) , then again perhaps its just me lol NB if ur not alowed nail varnish at urscool its ok coz its unlikely anyone else will notice just the one nail and you can always use the excuse that you ran out of varnish remover the night before- i have :D



PS ok ok so i'm yartterin on but i also find it useful to think of how GIGANTICALLY HUGE the universe is and how small the earth is when thought about i this context. it can make big monster issues seem smaller as your life and the whole of earth is so insignificant in the big expance of cool, calm, silent space 'out there'



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OK i kno that from what ive read in this section everyone is yupset and stuff but id figure id post some happy stuff too bout my currently (as long as it lasts) high self esteem. OK the trick for high self esteem, join a performing dance group, or theatre or sumthing. ok i kno ur thinking not me, well im in a Show chior we do like musiclas and dance and such. well im clinically over wieght and am not pretty but when ur on stage and u kno ur doing well u feel great about urself. all u do is finish ur show(smiling helps) :D. When u get off u have a new kinda radiance and everyone tells u how good u look and how great u r. so much fun. and this is great for ne one u dont have to be perfect. (trust me we did a risky slutty number and i felt fine eveb tho im normally very self consious. hope it helps -Katie
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I know how that feels.. its a good feeling.. but a lot of people are too shy to even sign up for something like that.. but its good to force yourself to do these things .. you'll feel so good afterwards..
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I used to be in choir :'( I have a lot of good memories of it...I loved being on stage with everyone else and having your "choir buddy" next to you (the person you always got stuck next to no matter what) and all the lights and audience and...ok i'm sounding way too corny right now, i'll shut up :P



But I agree it's an awesome feeling. If I could sing I would rejoin.
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Originally posted by Shwynsh@May 20 2004, 09:51 PM

I know how that feels.. its a good feeling.. but a lot of people are too shy to even sign up for something like that.. but its good to force yourself to do these things .. you'll feel so good afterwards..


Yeah but people like me are to afraid to do stuff like that..
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So many things I hate in me

So many things are so hard to believe

I can hear the whole world calling me

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You to see all that i you to be

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im glad 2 hear that sum ppl have guts 2 do things like dat...i used 2 act and i luved it and slipping into a new character helped me get away frm demons surrounding my own character! it is a rly gd idea...and i wud recommend it 2 ne1



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like i said earlier though, some people dont have guys to do that.
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I looked at myself

So many things I hate in me

So many things are so hard to believe

I can hear the whole world calling me

Used to be all that i wanted

You to see all that i you to be

does anyone care




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Originally posted by true@Oct 25 2003, 05:32 PM

sounds awesome except for the eating chocolate- I know, I do it too- but then I feel fat and bad about myself again. . . emotional eating is a viciuos cycle. . .

but those should work for everyone!! Thanx!!!




chocolate has actually been proven to help
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I looked at myself

So many things I hate in me

So many things are so hard to believe

I can hear the whole world calling me

Used to be all that i wanted

You to see all that i you to be

does anyone care




Add me.

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hmm, wow, i think i'll try that one too :)
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I looked at myself

So many things I hate in me

So many things are so hard to believe

I can hear the whole world calling me

Used to be all that i wanted

You to see all that i you to be

does anyone care




Add me.

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hmm....





oh well.... might work.... :P
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Originally posted by Platinum_orange_defect@Dec 1 2003, 09:33 PM

what if you dont have enough good things to cover the bad things?


then u aint looking deep enough...there are alwayz more gd than bad :)
When i cry i need you to wipe away all my tears....

Take away those fears....

and crush all bad i hear....




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