Might Be A Daddy? What To Do?

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Might Be A Daddy? What To Do?

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:wacko:



Just to start off so it dosnt sound like a real easy thing and so u understand and get what i mean and am commin from.... first i am a canadian and i am datin an american.. i am 17 and she is 16.. we live apart but its not an internet relationship... i live 115 miles away from her and plan on movin down with her and gettin a place in a year.... i came down for the summer to spend more time with her and we had sex a few times..i have used a condom every time and we have made sure we r safe... but its startin to show sings that she might be pregant... (havnt yet tookin the test) i am really not sure of what i should do or what i could do... we are worried and scared.. not sure what to say to anyone yet...so if anyone has anythin to say or an info that would help.. it would be great to get any... thanks :wacko:
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Take the test, then start worrying.
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Get her to take a home test, or take her to a clinic. But more then anything, be there for her. Wondering if you are pregnant is the biggest scare for a teenagers, believe me. But it helps alot when the guy who's part of it and loves you is there for you, it makes such a big difference.

If you have used a condom everytime, its most likely that she isn't pregnant, the signs could just be hormones or pms. x
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thanks everyone.... we are going to wait and see if she has a peiord on the 10 and if not.. take the test then and if it say she is... we r going to go to the doc.... i'll away be there for her and never leave her side.... thanks agian for answerin my question :)
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you're so smart! my older sis's dad walked out before she was born! I admire your courage! Most ppl i know would run.
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

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