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my cousin whom i grow up with is preg. we are both 16 her ma had her at 15 and she is pissed at her for getting preg. well the whole family is but i love her and i am mad i just wanna be there for her and everything but i am afraid what if i say something that offends her and she gets hurt worse. so is there any thing i can tell her that wont get her upset. ik this is confusing sorry
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just tell her that u r gonna be there to help her, for everything she needs.

why do you think she can offend her?
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because i grew up with her and she might expect me to not to judge her like the rest of the family
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then be honest to her and tell her you r scared she will think u r trying to judge her too.

just tell the truth.
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the best thing to do, is just tell her the truth, because no matter what you love her and want to be there for her, right? so tell her that, but i also think you should tell her anything else you're feeling..maybe like you're not judging her, but you're disappointed, but no matter what you're 100% behind her...if you're family is acting liek that towards her then she really need reassurance and people to show her that they love her...and its not easy to be pregnant, especially at such a young age so she's going to need people to lean on. just know your limit and dont let it stress you out too much ebcause altho you do love her and want to be there, this is her situation.



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thanks i know its her situation and all she has been hurt a lot and has been through so much shit these past few months.
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and i just wanna say that i talked to her and she knows i am with her thru this hard time and the good times. thru thick and thin thanks guys and gurls for all ur help
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whats one more fall when ur me whats one more skinned knee to bleed

Open your eyes and find urself. Before u decide where u belong decide if that is the only place u want to hide. A place to hide and to dry all the tears away
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