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Well since my bf and I have been living together.. his mom is bugging me about going on birthcontrol. I said I would think about it but I wasn't sure if I wanted to do that. So tonight at dinner, she asked me to go to the bathroom with her b/c she needed to talk to me. Well we went in the bathroom and she pulls the damn shot out of her purse. [she is a registered nurse btw so she gets it for free]. The only reason I am so against this is because this is sorda personal. I don't want my bfs mom giving me the shot but she just wont get off my back about it. I told her I wanted info about it before I took it because I don't know the side effects. I really don't want the shot at all. I hate shots, and I don't want to spot blood and worry about spotting at all. :\
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wow, she has no right to just whip out a needle to give you a shot! i can understand that she is just worried about being a grandmother too soon, but it is ultimately your decision alone whether you use birth control or not. she cannot force you. just be firm with her.
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I always say I will tell her what I feel but then I don't know.. she makes me feel so weird... I just get lost for words. I just stood there.. and tried to think of an excuse. I told my bf to tell her something. If she keeps bugging me I am just going to avoid her. :\
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That's screwed up that she would even do that. It is 100% your decision.. I personally wouldn't want to be on the shot.. I would go for the pill. Tell her it's your life and your body, and nothing is going to change that. Good luck!
That's screwed up that she would even do that. It is 100% your decision.. I personally wouldn't want to be on the shot.. I would go for the pill. Tell her it's your life and your body, and nothing is going to change that. Good luck!
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thankssssss.. i don't want the shot either.. i'd much rather have the pill errr. crazy lady
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Tell her how you feel?
Yeah, I really don't know exactly what to say....That's crazy...
Yeah, I really don't know exactly what to say....That's crazy...
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Although it is kind of rude of her for pushing you into this, you do need to be responsible about your sex life. Even if it's not the pill, going on birth control would be an extremely smart thing to do. I just got on the patch recently, and I love it. I only have to change it once a week, and it works exactly the same as the pill, except you don't have to remember it every single day (What a hassle that would be). I suggest that you look into it on your own, then maybe telling your boyfriends mom about your decision. I'm sure she'd be happy to know. But ofcourse she's pushing you.. She's worried about both you and your boyfriends lives. She's only doing it because she cares.
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I am trying to be careful. The only reason I am not on birth control right now is because I have been on it twice before. The patch & the pill and I get really bad side effects. I start throwing up and I just feel like I was thrown down a flight of stairs and shit on by a bunch of cows. Lets just say I get really really sick. I am thinking the shot would be even worse since it lasts even longer. As for my bfs mom, she just needs to back the hell off. It's my body, not hers you know? I don't think she has ANY right to be forcing me into something I don't want.
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just keep telling her to back off
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Originally posted by LedZep04@May 11 2004, 10:48 PM
I am trying to be careful. The only reason I am not on birth control right now is because I have been on it twice before. The patch & the pill and I get really bad side effects. I start throwing up and I just feel like I was thrown down a flight of stairs and shit on by a bunch of cows. Lets just say I get really really sick. I am thinking the shot would be even worse since it lasts even longer. As for my bfs mom, she just needs to back the hell off. It's my body, not hers you know? I don't think she has ANY right to be forcing me into something I don't want.
Did you use both those methods for over three months? Because thats the longest it could take to adjust to your body. Give it a chance. If you did wait longer, then you should tell your doctor and see if there is something else you could do.
You know.. There are different sorts of pills that have different amounts of hormones in them. Which means the more hormones, the more side affects, the less hormones, the less side affects.
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well the pill i had the lightest dosage.. my doc told me not to go on it right now b/c I have bad stomach problems and they have to do all these tests on me right now, and they don't want more problems until they find out what is wrong with me. Anyways, I don't want to be sick for 3 months.. I'm not up to that.
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Thats as long as it would take, as in thats the LONGEST. I'm sure it wouldn't take that long. But wouldn't you rather be sick for a while than get pregnant?
Honestly, I think that if you can't be on birth control right now, you shouldn't be having sex.
Honestly, I think that if you can't be on birth control right now, you shouldn't be having sex.
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also isnt their some legal age to be having sex?
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just tell her what you just told us....explain why you are so hesitant about going on the pill....i bet she would understand.2
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Originally posted by EvScenCe@May 17 2004, 07:36 PM
also isnt their some legal age to be having sex?
This has nothing to do with what she's asking.
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I don't see why someone would HAVE to be on birth control to have sex.. where did this rule come up? If we use protection, which we do now then thats good enough for me. I don't think you should be saying if I should be having sex or not. I'm old enough to know I am ready to have sex. If I got pregnant, I would just live up to it. What could I do whats already been done?
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I wasn't ordering you to, I was suggesting it. Because it's dangerous to be having sex with that risk of getting pregnant.
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Oh I know that.. sorry if I came off wrong.. I was just thinking that there isn't a rule to that though yanoo? I know it's dangerous .. I'm stupid.. I admit to that.. heh
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Don't worry, so am I.
Out of the hundreds of times Michael and I have had sex, we've used a condom about 3 or 4 times. We even took it off for him to cum. Neither of us can orgasm with him wearing a condom. But thats why I'm not on birth control (Finally).
Out of the hundreds of times Michael and I have had sex, we've used a condom about 3 or 4 times. We even took it off for him to cum. Neither of us can orgasm with him wearing a condom. But thats why I'm not on birth control (Finally).
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omg.. i feel like some idiot saying I dont use condoms a lot.. but geez they suck ass.. you can totally feel them and they just make me go dry.. we always end up taking them off too.. thats why we want me on birth control.. I am going to look into it though for sure.. no babies for me!
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