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I have miscarried. It's not fair I did want that baby. :wallbash: Why can't anything go right? Why ME? I hate my life it's so unfair. :crying:
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I may have done some things that are wrong but hey who hasn't? I don't know anyone that is perfect. Do you?



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well god gives us children to teach us something, no matter for how long.



have you gone to the hospital?
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yes.
Our attitude towards life determines lifes attitude towards us.

-Earl Nighingale



I may have done some things that are wrong but hey who hasn't? I don't know anyone that is perfect. Do you?



People don't die from suicide they die from sadness.

-ANONYMOUS





That which nourishes me also destroys me.

ANGELINA JOLIE -So true for me. I believe it.
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what did they say/do at the hospital?
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I have miscarried. It's not fair I did want that baby. :wallbash: Why can't anything go right? Why ME? I hate my life it's so unfair. :crying:

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By 12 weeks, if a normal heartbeat is heard or the pregnancy looks normal on ultrasound, the chance of miscarriage goes down to about 1%.



http://www.drspock.com/article/0,1510,4444,00.html

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Did everything look ok on the ultrasound?
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I have miscarried. It's not fair I did want that baby. :wallbash: Why can't anything go right? Why ME? I hate my life it's so unfair. :crying:

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Friend,



I am sorry that you had to go through such an ordeal. I'd like to offer some kind of comfort to you, however I can not imagine how horrible you must be feeling. The only thing I can say is that everything happens for a reason.



I think maybe you should do some self examination and inner thought. Maybe you could find some closure, perhaps it was not the right time in your life to have a child. Maybe you where not truly ready to handle such a large change in your life, and maybe this miscarriage is a door opening for you, to give you the time you need to get to the point in your life where you are prepared for a child.



I don't know much about your personal situation, but if you just think on things, I am sure that you will find something positive. Its not what happens in our life that defines us, but how we react to and what we do with, what happens in our life.



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what procedures did they do?

im sure it would help people who may have been in that situation to know about it
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what procedures did they do?

im sure it would help people who may have been in that situation to know about it

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Yea exacttly.
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