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well firs of all I read the ultimate how to sex guide witch answered many of my questions and well I don't want to do a stupid question as I am 15 and my boyfriend 16 should we do it? no I want to decide that by myself but I stil have some questions am well first of all for the firs time what kind of cotraseptive should be the best? cause i want to get the pill but here in mexico is not that easy going to a doctor alone and he obiously tels your parents so I can't get it and well obiusly I will use a condom but is there any combination of contraceptives (that doesn't include the pill) that would be good ? and my other cuestion is that well it will be the firs time for the both of us and well i don't know if there are any tips for the first time and well i really don't know what i will do well these things have been driving me crazy hope ypu can help me
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if you have to ask if you're sure than you're not sure, you'll know when you're ready but if you choose to ignore me anyway than use a spermicide along with the condom, we have these cool "films" here, i dunno about mexico but im sure you'll be able to find something
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You're in Mexico? I may be wrong but I don't beleive you need a doctors prescription to get medication in Mexico. If I'm right then you can just walk up to the pharmacy tell them you need birth control pills and they should sell them to you. If I'm wrong, then condoms with spermicide.
Oh and what to do for the first time, I suggest you have him lay down and you sit on top. That way you can control how hard and fast he can go in. This gives you control on how much it will hurt when he breaks your hymen.
Oh and what to do for the first time, I suggest you have him lay down and you sit on top. That way you can control how hard and fast he can go in. This gives you control on how much it will hurt when he breaks your hymen.
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yeah you can enter and ask for watever you want but you need a doctor to help you to control them and to help you with them am well that's what everyone has told me (everyone is books health teacher friends) yeah I am also researching if I can control them by myself I just don't know how to use them properly for how long time and all that stuff and I am shure and I didn't mean to say I wasn't shure sorry if I wrote something that was mis interpreted I'm still not quite an expert in english lenguage
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Correct me if I'm wrong...And I probably am ...But I think the pills come with directions...But I'm not sure so don't take my word for it.
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ja ja ja yes I KNOW!!!!!!! im nos tupid :'( but there are side efects and things that can happenOriginally posted by Rosa@Aug 23 2003, 05:36 PM
Correct me if I'm wrong...And I probably am ...But I think the pills come with directions...But I'm not sure so don't take my word for it.
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i dont know how it is there but here my doctor had to ask me soooo many questions to find out what type of birth control was right for me..whatever..
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thats what I am talking about you can't just go and take pills thats just not responisble and MY PARENTS!!!! they don't even know i have a boyfriend they dont let me now imagine if i tell them i want to have sexOriginally posted by bones@Aug 23 2003, 06:00 PM
i dont know how it is there but here my doctor had to ask me soooo many questions to find out what type of birth control was right for me..whatever..
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Why not just ask your doctor to keep it confidential? I think it might be illegal to go against your wishes unless it's absolutely necessary...Like if you were gonna die or something. But again, I don't know
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well i wish it could be that simple but it isn'tOriginally posted by Rosa@Aug 23 2003, 06:18 PM
Why not just ask your doctor to keep it confidential? I think it might be illegal to go against your wishes unless it's absolutely necessary...Like if you were gonna die or something. But again, I don't know
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well i wish it could be that simple but it isn't [/b][/quote]Originally posted by dead cry+Aug 23 2003, 11:38 PM--<table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'<tr<tdQUOTE (dead cry @ Aug 23 2003, 11:38 PM)</td</tr<tr<td id='QUOTE' <!--QuoteBegin-Rosa@Aug 23 2003, 06:18 PM
Why not just ask your doctor to keep it confidential? I think it might be illegal to go against your wishes unless it's absolutely necessary...Like if you were gonna die or something. But again, I don't know
It is that simple. They have to keep it confedential.
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It is that simple. They have to keep it confedential. [/b][/quote]Originally posted by Kristina+Aug 24 2003, 10:57 PM--<table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'<tr<tdQUOTE (Kristina @ Aug 24 2003, 10:57 PM)</td</tr<tr<td id='QUOTE'Originally posted by dead cry@Aug 23 2003, 11:38 PM
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Why not just ask your doctor to keep it confidential? I think it might be illegal to go against your wishes unless it's absolutely necessary...Like if you were gonna die or something. But again, I don't know
well i wish it could be that simple but it isn't
Yeah Kristina is 100% correct. Doctors can NOT tell your parents ANYTHING. Unless of course you are in serious danger. But they can't tell your parents about it. Whoever told you that was lying...
Just go to your doctors and ask to get put on it...
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Oh and what to do for the first time, I suggest you have him lay down and you sit on top. That way you can control how hard and fast he can go in. This gives you control on how much it will hurt when he breaks your hymen.
I second that! I did the same when I lost my virginity and it hardly hurt me...
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Yeah Kristina is 100% correct. Doctors can NOT tell your parents ANYTHING. Unless of course you are in serious danger. But they can't tell your parents about it. Whoever told you that was lying...Originally posted by Crazy Bird+Aug 24 2003, 06:15 PM--<table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'<tr<tdQUOTE (Crazy Bird @ Aug 24 2003, 06:15 PM)</td</tr<tr<td id='QUOTE'Originally posted by Kristina@Aug 24 2003, 10:57 PM
Originally posted by dead cry@Aug 23 2003, 11:38 PM
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Why not just ask your doctor to keep it confidential? I think it might be illegal to go against your wishes unless it's absolutely necessary...Like if you were gonna die or something. But again, I don't know
well i wish it could be that simple but it isn't
It is that simple. They have to keep it confedential.
Just go to your doctors and ask to get put on it...
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how can i get you to understand!!!!!! HERE IN MEXICO that code of secresy is hardly kept they obiusly tell your parents
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how can i get you to understand!!!!!! HERE IN MEXICO that code of secresy is hardly kept they obiusly tell your parents [/b][/quote]Originally posted by dead cry+Aug 25 2003, 01:27 AM--<table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'<tr<tdQUOTE (dead cry @ Aug 25 2003, 01:27 AM)</td</tr<tr<td id='QUOTE'Originally posted by Crazy Bird@Aug 24 2003, 06:15 PM
Originally posted by Kristina@Aug 24 2003, 10:57 PM
well i wish it could be that simple but it isn't
It is that simple. They have to keep it confedential.
Yeah Kristina is 100% correct. Doctors can NOT tell your parents ANYTHING. Unless of course you are in serious danger. But they can't tell your parents about it. Whoever told you that was lying...
Just go to your doctors and ask to get put on it...
No, I believe that mexico has the same rules. Why don't you call the doctor and ask for his confedentiality proceadures?
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yeah we have the same rules BUT we don't respect them and no one really cares. If you get caught you just pay some money to the police and as easy as that we just don't obey the law as you do thats why we are so fucked up but i'll tryOriginally posted by Kristina@Aug 25 2003, 09:35 AM
No, I believe that mexico has the same rules. Why don't you call the doctor and ask for his confedentiality proceadures?