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I know this is going to sound so stupid...but I have a question. I am thinking about losing my virginity to my lboyfriend but I am scared because I don't know what to do when having sex. How do you ahve sex





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ease into it with a lil fingering then let him put it in in submissionary position the first time, that is quite easy. Then let him do the work, but get into it with moving your hips and moaning and such...that will be all over in about 5 minutes lol
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well it depends on a lot of things.

first u better be a 100%, or close to it, knowing ur ready.

two has ur boyfriend ever done it before.



when a girl loses her virginity for the first time it will hurt, and to make it wonderful, the guy really has to do it correctly. for example, i had sex with my friend cassandra and i was somewhat her first time. i felt how tight it was and i slowly put it in, asked her when it hurt, so i knew my limits, then i did it real slow, till i was able to go a little further, then i did it slow again, until i was completely in and then after goin slow again, i did it the way i like to do it, and she loved it.
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for ur first time u should lay flat on your back. it will hurt a lil at first n it shouldnt take that long ethier. only if hes not good at it it might take longer. but hey u like it

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Or if he can hold it in longer :rolleyes:





Just take it slow. There isnt really a rule to sex. But if you want it to be easier to just make sure he takes it slow and doesnt just dive in. There isn't a set possition you have to do so if you dont wanna do missionary then do something else.
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missionary is probably best for a virgin though, it doesnt have to much g-spot stimulation so it wont cause soreness there, plus the guy has control of how much goes in, and the penetration aint that bad. missionary is like the basic sex formation. other stuff more advance like girl on top, girl on top crouching (thats hot), doggy, dirty sanchez, lol the likes.
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Originally posted by Sk8r_4_LiFe@Jan 17 2004, 03:12 AM

girl on top crouching (thats hot), , dirty sanchez, lol the likes.




pls. explain, ive never heard of those
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Originally posted by Sk8r_4_LiFe@Jan 17 2004, 03:12 AM

dirty sanchez, lol the likes.


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Thrust + penis + vagina = sexual intercourse



Not much to know. The first time you probably won't have to do much, just sit back, and try to relax your muscles. The more tense you are, the more it's gonna hurt.
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Originally posted by JennaW+Jan 17 2004, 05:09 PM--<table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'<tr<tdQUOTE (JennaW @ Jan 17 2004, 05:09 PM)</td</tr<tr<td id='QUOTE'<!--QuoteBegin-Sk8r_4_LiFe@Jan 17 2004, 03:12 AM

girl on top crouching (thats hot), , dirty sanchez, lol the likes.




pls. explain, ive never heard of those[/b][/quote]



yeah ...i never heard of them too...what are they?
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I heard that when you ahve sex and your on the bottom you just lay there????



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like girl on top, girl on top crouching (thats hot), doggy, dirty sanchez, lol the likes.


Dirty sanchez is pretty nasty, its when your doing anal and the guy whips it out and wipes the poo off his penis on her mouth... pretty wierd stuff
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oh my god, Dirty sanchez is the most disgusting thing ever. Who would do that? What woman would let a man do that to her? Yuck yuck, please ladies don't let your guy do that, its disgusting.
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Originally posted by stephie@Jan 22 2004, 03:04 PM

oh my god, Dirty sanchez is the most disgusting thing ever. Who would do that? What woman would let a man do that to her? Yuck yuck, please ladies don't let your guy do that, its disgusting.
but what is it?i've never heard of it
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but what is it?i've never heard of it


matt punk answered that already.



Um, I have no advice(still a virgin) but I just want to say, make sure u usea condom and that u r SURE u want to do this.



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No one has said anythinga bout what I said...I heard that if you are on the bottom when you are having sex...you just lay there and let the person on top do all the work.



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Originally posted by candykisses@Jan 26 2004, 04:22 PM

No one has said anythinga bout what I said...I heard that if you are on the bottom when you are having sex...you just lay there and let the person on top do all the work.



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