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Re: Obsessing

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My girlfriend doesn't have very big breasts either.. and she's 18. Does it matter? Not at all. I'm very happy with her, and them :P



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I know you are worried about them... but seriously... guys will go for you no matter what size your breasts are! If you want to read about breast size issues, go to http://www.sexetc.org and read the female health articles. No worries though... you're beautiful the way you are... so strut your stuff the way it is! Good luck hon, and take care!
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Originally posted by Rob@Jun 1 2004, 01:15 PM

My girlfriend doesn't have very big breasts either.. and she's 18. Does it matter? Not at all. I'm very happy with her, and them :P



Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So stop concerning yourself with yourself so much! And maybe avoid mirrors to easen that process.. ;)


I try to avoid my reflection so much that it's very hard to even accept that it's me I'm looking at. I don't like it. I don't accept myself, and there's nothing I can do about it. I feel like jumping off a bridge....









I really just don't fit, and growing up just gets worse everyday
It's the little things that make a big difference.



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maybe it's not only about ur brests then cause i mean people get used to what they have, u should learn to like ur body the way it is, dont focus on anything specific cause obviously u'll always compare urself to others( that's our nature), but if u like urself for who u are then u'll be fine, and that'll show
Now you'll find with everything you lose

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Well, I can't. And not only can I not afford to get help, I can't bring myself to let anyone in the family know, and I don't have a way with words/tired of hinting to others who don't get it.
It's the little things that make a big difference.



In case you hadn't noticed...4-letter words:



love - hate - true - life



"And there are voices

That want to be heard

So much to mention

But you can't find the words"

--Listen to Your Heart, DHT



I can't erase myself, but I can try to move on.
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hey i know it's hard, but obsessing over things will get u to a place u dont want to be
Now you'll find with everything you lose

Your path clears with everything you choose



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Go look at some models. Some of them are pretty small-breasted, but guys still think they're hot. I found this cool picture of a girl's torso, back arched, and she looked exactly like me--small boobs, huge hips... but she still looked -hot- ;). And yeah, I'm straight, so it doesn't make you bi to think like that.



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all us guys love them to an extent and bein mildly obsessed with them is fine. I personally love them, but can deal without so im ok
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Guess I'll have to learn the hard way to understand.... From sheltering myself, that seems to be the only way I "get" stuff!
It's the little things that make a big difference.



In case you hadn't noticed...4-letter words:



love - hate - true - life



"And there are voices

That want to be heard

So much to mention

But you can't find the words"

--Listen to Your Heart, DHT



I can't erase myself, but I can try to move on.
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Someone will allways love u for who u are..... its hard not to want what we dont have, but we atleast need to learn to live with it and even love being different sometimes no one is perfect i have a small chest too i have a hard time excepting it some days and others i love it, i can play sports without much pain and im payed attention to from my personality rather then my body ya kno... there is no way to be perfect to everyone in the world, love yourself ......and keep posting your not bother anyone :cap:
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