Well ive only had sex 6 times but even on the 5th and 6th time it still hurt! It's fine when im top but on the bottom it hurts so much. Ive only had sex with one guy and its not like his dick size changes everytime. It just still feels like im being streatched out but none of my friends had this problem. But i have to admitt i was extremly tight before having sex.
Why is this!?! Am i doing soemthing wrong?
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gotta take the good with the bad...
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Thats heppened to me too, i had sex 4 times, and when we tried to the 5th time ab out 3 months later, it hurt really bad, are u sure your not at the end of your period or starting up? that might be the reason why
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Re: It Still Hurts
You've only had sex 6 times. You're still only beginning. Give it time, you don't stretch out once and then you're done, it takes a while.
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maybe it's because u were anxious before u had it, i mean it would help if u really relaxed
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I had this happen once.How long did you go inbetween the fourth and 5th time?Because if you go too long between you tighten up a little more and its like theyre starting from scratch.lol.Well good luck.
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It might also be that you're nervous-which makes the muscles tighten. Try relaxing, that may help 
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I agree just relax.and don't wait like weeks or months from time to time.You will get tight just a little bit in between those times.When I was being raped the first few times were really painful but as my body got used to it it didn't hurt as much physically just emotionally becasue it was rape after all.
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It might be a while before it stops hurting. It hurt like hell for me the first 6 months taht i had sex (I'm talking baout like 3 times a day for the 6 months too) Don't ask what i was thinking. It does get better. I hope for you you never go through that much pain. It just takes time. Good luck and i hope so much that your not like me.....
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Its just going to have to take some time.. I know I really didn't have much pain at all.. once u start getting to know what u like and sex becomes a regular thing for you it wont hurt at all.
Oh and yes relaxing helps.. because if ur tightening ur muscles its just going to make it that much harder for u to enjoy it.
Oh and yes relaxing helps.. because if ur tightening ur muscles its just going to make it that much harder for u to enjoy it.
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happened to me too. just give it a little time and things will feel better
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It took me at least 12 times before it stopped hurting. Dont worry, it'll feel good eventually.
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