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Is Something Wrong With Me?

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Ok, well, i don't know how to really say this but...I never get wet. I'm a 16 year old virgin and I don't masturbate, but I have virgin friends who don't masturbate either, but a lot of them are really horny and can get at least somewhat wet just by looking at a really hot guy. Is something wrong with me, or is there something I missed?



P.S. I'm not sure if this made any sense at all! haha, if it doesn't then just let me know and I'll try to be more specific. Thanks everyone
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well why dont u masturbate? since u're a virgin u have no experience and dont masturbate u have zero experience with how ur body works, and how to become excited.. for some people simply seeing someone will get them excited for others it takes more time and effort, and u gotta learn what works for u
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but, is it "not normal" to never be horny? Because, like I said, I have friends who don't masturbate either but they are, as we call them "horndogs" (haha, we play around like that) So, I was just wondering. Thanks again
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but not everyone's body is build in the exactly same way, ur friends can be turned on easily by seeing a handsome guy and it might take more for u to get turned on.. honestly though i wouldnt believe everything ur friends tell u, i mean they're virgins too and if they dont masturbate as u say, then they have NO IDEA what it is like to be turned on and have an orgasm... so i stick to my opinion:try masturbating
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i guess im kinda with u on this one. hot guys dont really do any thing for me either and i do masturbate. dunno. i really look for guys by personality tho -- looks arent all that important. guess im just weird but im not really worried about it.

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Well, your body just doesn't sound ready for sexual activity. Nothing wrong with that, you just need to wait a while, and it will change.
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I think thats fine.. I wouldn't force anything, I wouldn't masturbate if you didn't want to- its normal, you're not unusual.. not everyone does, and not everyone gets horny at all times, its fine.
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Originally posted by XoXCathleenXoX@Jun 17 2004, 09:59 PM

Masturbate...then youll start getting wet. so youve never had a wet dream or anything, its about time you do....mastubate, it will solve your problem.....







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