It's been so long since i've done it, and the "want" is what you could say is building up. Tori and I are fine right, but she and I sometimes don't have the horny feeling to just go and do stuff there is prom and we'll be drinking that night so that could get things going again right plus with the excuse we were drunk, yeah yeah. But hey, I have a feeling that I'd be much greater at it now so I wanna do it again...
How can I get the mood back, like I know if I asked her she'd do it because she's nice like that but I don't wanan force it on her even if it's not really a force but hey.
What are ways of setting the mood?
We've also been together for 21 monthes as of today, almost 2 years. Does being old lol havce anything to do with it? Like we still love eachother just the sexual activity has dropped down.
The roles have reversed it seems, before it was her who wanted to do stuff all the time and I didn't want to, yeah i still loved her then but i didn't wanna do it. It's liek indrect payback lol.
Please, your thoughts comments, and advice would be much appreciated...
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Setting "the Mood"
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Re: Setting "the Mood"
oh there's so many different way of setting the mood from simply cuddling to romantic dinner or something like that.. i mean use ur imagination think what she's into and what would she enjoy doing...what will show her that u really care? i mean there are no wrong answers here
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Re: Setting "the Mood"
I had/have that problem with Michael. It's definately improving as time goes by, though. This is just a stage that a relationship experiences when they've been together for so long that sex has become so typical that it's just not the sort of thing you get excited about anymore, and thats what I believe is going on with Tori, because thats what happened to me (Including being on birth control for the first time).
Ways to set the mood though.. Hmm.. Do you normally do romantic things for her? If not, then start making her dinner and be more affectionate. Touch her all over, kiss her and hold her, even in front of your friends.
One way that Michael got me to want to make love with him is.. Well, he started to mess around with my body while I was still sleeping, this was early in the morning, and eventually I woke up, with my body already ready! And it was quite satisfying. If she sleeps over, you could consider that.
Ways to set the mood though.. Hmm.. Do you normally do romantic things for her? If not, then start making her dinner and be more affectionate. Touch her all over, kiss her and hold her, even in front of your friends.
One way that Michael got me to want to make love with him is.. Well, he started to mess around with my body while I was still sleeping, this was early in the morning, and eventually I woke up, with my body already ready! And it was quite satisfying. If she sleeps over, you could consider that.
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Re: Setting "the Mood"
-slow dance
-make her dinner
-lay on the bed and stair into each others eyes and talk about how much and why you love each other
-cuddle, mess with her, whisper in her ear
-watch a good movie you both like and try to kiss he rand then go from there
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-make her dinner
-lay on the bed and stair into each others eyes and talk about how much and why you love each other
-cuddle, mess with her, whisper in her ear
-watch a good movie you both like and try to kiss he rand then go from there
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Re: Setting "the Mood"
We sometimes have that problem as well because its like by the time that we do get to be able to have sex its just like either one of us is tired.. upset etc. Its a really good stress reliever though so.. we find time.
Do little things to make her think about you all day long.. like send her messages or bring her flowers.. cook her dinner or breakfast. That way when u do finally get to see her she really wants to be with you. Start off just holding and cuddling with her and kissing etc. See where it goes.. she may want to go farther or maybe not. If u do want to have sex with her.. hint at it though so that she knows.
Do little things to make her think about you all day long.. like send her messages or bring her flowers.. cook her dinner or breakfast. That way when u do finally get to see her she really wants to be with you. Start off just holding and cuddling with her and kissing etc. See where it goes.. she may want to go farther or maybe not. If u do want to have sex with her.. hint at it though so that she knows.
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