Originally posted by wagon_wheel@Dec 22 2004, 03:45 PM
You said if k"your 12 and think your ready whats the problem"...lol...the problem is your young and naive and you think your ready for everything...your 12 fucken years old...you know nothing....although you think you know everything...
And once again there is a difference between 12 and 15 year olds hvaing sex...and like I said before its called experience......
and about the consequences..most 12 year old girls are so naive ...that they don't even think of consequences.....and they shouldn't have to think about stds/pregency...there too younge to be computing that kinda junk in there brain....you know what I mean....leave "grown up" topics for "grown ups"...
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You're stereotyping 12 year olds. What if some 12 year olds do know alot... and do think they're ready. It's not your place to decide whether or not they actually are ready. Some 15 year old girls aren't ready, and in my opinion, there's hardly any teens that actually are ready to have sex, yet they still do. What separates them from the 12 year olds that think they're ready? The age difference? hmm?
(Btw, I'm 14...so I'm not just a 12 year old trying to defend myself, I'm just speaking the truth...too many people stereotype this sort of thing)
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You know, I can't help but wonder if you fully read the article word for word and if you truely understood what she was talking about. She wasn't talking about actual sexual intercourse, she was talking about children expierimenting.
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I did, but you didn't answer my question really. She wasn't too clear about what age-group she was referring to, and I hope NO ONE here thinks it's alright or good for kids under the age of 13 to actually have sexual intercourse or sex in any way/shape/form. It doesn't take a complete rocket scientist to figure out that it would be extremely disturbing, wrong and disgusting to hear about two seven year old kids having sex. It's just wrong. Thankfully, I guess, the author is referring to teenagers, which makes somewhat more since. Still, to have parents actively (all the time) encouraging their kids to "experiment" or "play around" is just plain creepy and not right. Yes, there should be a careful balance, but the author seemingly is only one-sided in that she REALLY WANTS parents to REALLY SERIOUSLY ENCOURAGE their kids to do things seemingly all the time, which is obviously not really good, or, sane. Scary views, scary people.
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Primarily, she is addressing your attitude. Secondly, prepuberic humans are not capable of sexual intercoarse and neither are they indulged by the idea. The female vagina is not completely developed, and the male penis is still developing. In other words, the hormones that sexually stimulate humans to engage in sexual activity coincides with the development of the sexual anatomy so that damage to the reproductive system does not occur. Besides, on the Christian view, a simple question concerning God. In the case that God condemns our sexual indulgences, why has he promoted the hormonic progression of human interest into sexual activity? To me, it sounds like God either doesn't give a fuck, or he is evil.
Besides, on the Christian view, a simple question concerning God. In the case that God condemns our sexual indulgences, why has he promoted the hormonic progression of human interest into sexual activity? To me, it sounds like God either doesn't give a fuck, or he is evil.
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Very well said. *Claps*
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Originally posted by linc_j_2005+Dec 6 2004, 07:15 AM--
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You know, I can't help but wonder if you fully read the article word for word and if you truely understood what she was talking about. She wasn't talking about actual sexual intercourse, she was talking about children expierimenting.
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I did, but you didn't answer my question really. She wasn't too clear about what age-group she was referring to, and I hope NO ONE here thinks it's alright or good for kids under the age of 13 to actually have sexual intercourse or sex in any way/shape/form. It doesn't take a complete rocket scientist to figure out that it would be extremely disturbing, wrong and disgusting to hear about two seven year old kids having sex. It's just wrong. Thankfully, I guess, the author is referring to teenagers, which makes somewhat more since. Still, to have parents actively (all the time) encouraging their kids to "experiment" or "play around" is just plain creepy and not right. Yes, there should be a careful balance, but the author seemingly is only one-sided in that she REALLY WANTS parents to REALLY SERIOUSLY ENCOURAGE their kids to do things seemingly all the time, which is obviously not really good, or, sane. Scary views, scary people.
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well im not a complete rocket scientist (i will be wenn ive graduated), but what i think the author of the article meant is, that we shouldnt be hellbent on discouraging it, she didnt say we should actively encourage it, and even if she did i could still agree to a certain level, we should let children free in their own exploration of their sexual being
dont take what im about to say personal but its my thought that your thinking from inside the box, and you arent stepping out of the box to look at the entire process and what has happend and is happening in society at this moment.
lol well ok first of all i dont think that this is perverted @ all i started exploring stuff when i was like 10... so i mean i toattly agree w/ this article... sorry if i sound nasty but its my opinion sooo yah!! lol
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That's basically promoting promiscuous activity at a young age (if they are exploring with others), and then they'll have tons of problems when they are adults.
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I have to say... Drink culture for example... In France children are given small amounts of wine and alcohol that they can handle and it incraeses as they get older. In Britain it's SO WRONG to drink and children are taught that it's horrible and wrong.
Why is it then that in Britain we have HUGE problems with teenagers going out and getting shit-faced and really damaging themselves but France don't?
well i think children should be educated and told that sex is not wrong or a bad thing as many ppl say...because it isn't..when done at the right time...i don't think that parents should encourge their children to experiment though...if i had children there is no way i would tell them its alright to go and fool around with someone...granted i would know they most likely will fool around anyways...because well thats what children and teenagers do...i would never condone sexual activitity amongst my own children...even though i have experimented myself...then again...im a child who was exposed to sex and sexuality at a young age having saw my mom and many boyfriends get physical and having been raped/molested at a very young age...so maybe that is why i became sexually active...
