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ok my boyfriend and i kind of want to have anal sex. just to try it once. we tried it 2 nights ago. he barely got the head in and i made him pull out. it hurt so bad. i even had started to cry. he felt really bad. is there anything we can do so it doesnt hurt as bad? i told him to use a lubricated comdom. will that help? help!!!!!! and for those of you that have had anal, does it hurt? how bad?
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Use a lot of lubrication and go very slow. If it hurts then STOP. No sense in continuing if you are in pain. Some people cant do it. Plain and simple, it hurts too damn much. I have been told that it hurts the first few times, but apparently its more fun the more you do it..idk.
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i know for me i can't not doing b/c with the first person i did it with he riped my anus....(sp) ....but yea and it does hurt....atleast the first time..i have NOT done it any more and i will never do it again...but yea any ways like she said some ppl just can't do it (me being one)
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I think it just like normal sex and how it hurts the first time you do it. After awhile you are just use to it. I would have him use a lot of lube and be really slow and not move all that much. Like when some guys have sex with virgins for the first time they take it really slow so that they don't hurt her.
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thanks i think ill just try lots and lots of lube. i dont know how much it hurts the first time for sex b/c it didnt hurt for me. but thanks and ill tell him to go very slow.
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Well anal is really only for exit only... But if you really wanna do it make sure you use *EXTRA* lube, and a lot of it. Unlike the vagina it doesnt make its own lubercation.
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get like vasoline or a bottle of LUBE

if its ur first time - expect to use the WHOLE thing
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ok well first off ive never had anal sex... but ive kinda wanted to try it, but anyways, i asked some of my friends(that are older& more experienced) how it felt and how to make it not hurt as bad, first off you should i know this sounds sick, but take a crap before, take a shower.. calm your nerves down and use a condom and lube. i know all of that youve probly heard but i heard it works... but good luck hun, and if it is really that uncomfortable, then u shouldnt do it... but anyways hun good luck... **night**
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