What's Going On?
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padresfan
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What's Going On?
Ok so everytime i'm around my really good guy friend, or even just talking to him online or the phone, i get "wet" down there, (not like i wet my pants, but like sticky white stuff, i know it's gross, sorry). Every single time this happens. What's going on?
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Re: What's Going On?
This just happens probably because you're very attracted to him- sexually, usually if that's whats happening. You must like him a lot... or have feelings of 'lust' towards him. Do you?
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"I have a feeling that you're riding for some kind of a terrible, terrible fall. . . . This fall I think you're riding for-it's a special kind of fall, a horrible kind. The man falling isn't permitted to feel or hear himself hit bottom. He just keeps falling and falling. The whole arrangement's designed for men who, at some time or other in their lives, were looking for something their own environment couldn't supply them with. Or they thought their own environment couldn't supply them with. So they gave up looking. They gave it up before they ever really even got started"
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padresfan
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Re: What's Going On?
I really do like him a lot, more than I have liked anyone else before. This has just never happened to me. I don't know what to do.
"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that." Dumbledore, Harry Potter
SI free for over 4 years........and counting!
I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes
But it's home to me and I walk alone
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Don't know where it goes
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Umm...
Well, white sticky stuff is a natural cleaning fluid our vaginas produce. OR, it could be that you're just really sexually deprived? That's interesting, you've never noticed this before?
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Well, white sticky stuff is a natural cleaning fluid our vaginas produce. OR, it could be that you're just really sexually deprived? That's interesting, you've never noticed this before?
Cheers,
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padresfan
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Re: What's Going On?
Well i mean i've seen the white stuff before as general discharge before the time of the month, but definitely never this much before.
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I walk a lonely road
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But it's home to me and I walk alone
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But it's home to me and I walk alone
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It is normal for your vagina to secrete fluids during heightened arousal. You like this guy more than you?ve liked anyone else before, and since you like him so damn much your brain is literally telling your body to make these fluids and secrete them to get your body ready for sex. It?s often called ?getting wet.? It happens to MANY women when they are sexually aroused. Totally normal!
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padresfan
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Re: What's Going On?
Is there anyway i can try to control it?
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I walk a lonely road
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But it's home to me and I walk alone
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By not letting him get you horny. That's pretty much the only way. Haha.Originally posted by padresfan@Feb 19 2005, 05:12 PM
Is there anyway i can try to control it?
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Yeah... Or you could like... Masturbate a little bit more or something so your not so... Uhh...Sexually deprived (like jenna said?) anyway, yeah. good luck. Its normal though, don't worry.
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l3rok3n
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Maybe try thinking of things not relating to sex at all. Or when you talk to him do something else so you are slightly distracted? Sorry, I don't really know what could help.
You called yesterday to basically say
That you care for me but that you're just not in love
Immediately I pretended to be feeling similarly
And led you to believe I was O.K.
To just walk away from the one thing
That's unyielding and sacred to me
Well I guess I'm trying to be nonchalant about it
And I'm going to extremes to prove I'm fine without you
But in reality I'm slowly losing my my mind
Underneath the guise of a smile gradually I'm dying inside
Friends ask me how I feel and I lie convincingly
'Cause I don't want to reveal the fact that I'm suffering
So I wear my disguise 'til I go home at night
And turn down all the lights and then break down and cry
So what do you do when somebody you're devoted to
Suddenly just stops loving you and it seems they haven't got a clue
Of the pain that rejection is putting you through
Do you cling to your pride and sing "I will survive"
Do you lash out and say "How dare you leave this way"
Do you hold on in vain as they just slip away
That you care for me but that you're just not in love
Immediately I pretended to be feeling similarly
And led you to believe I was O.K.
To just walk away from the one thing
That's unyielding and sacred to me
Well I guess I'm trying to be nonchalant about it
And I'm going to extremes to prove I'm fine without you
But in reality I'm slowly losing my my mind
Underneath the guise of a smile gradually I'm dying inside
Friends ask me how I feel and I lie convincingly
'Cause I don't want to reveal the fact that I'm suffering
So I wear my disguise 'til I go home at night
And turn down all the lights and then break down and cry
So what do you do when somebody you're devoted to
Suddenly just stops loving you and it seems they haven't got a clue
Of the pain that rejection is putting you through
Do you cling to your pride and sing "I will survive"
Do you lash out and say "How dare you leave this way"
Do you hold on in vain as they just slip away
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Originally posted by Beautiful@Feb 19 2005, 06:34 PM
Yeah... Or you could like... Masturbate a little bit more or something so your not so... Uhh...Sexually deprived (like jenna said?) anyway, yeah. good luck. Its normal though, don't worry.
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Ah ha! that won't work. lol we girls can just keep on going and going when it comes to sex.. deprivation has nothing to do with it lol.
Really, I don't think there's anything you can do about it.. sorry to say lol. the only thing i can say is that (assuming this is maybe a fairly new relationship type thing) your body will eventually get used to it. That used to happen to me when my ex bf and i would just like.. lay real close next to each other. after awhile tho it only really happened when we actually started doing stuff lol. and trust me i was not sexually deprived or anything. It just takes getting used to somebody else actually arousing you..lol. All i can offer you is that after awhile i wasn't as easily aroused by my ex, therefore the 'wetness' didn't happen as often.. otherwise, learn to love it-it just may make sex easier for ya someday!
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Re: What's Going On?
Oh goodness, it's really bad when we hug cause like our crotches touch.
I guess I just have to work on not letting this all bother me, and just get over the fact that it happens.
I guess I just have to work on not letting this all bother me, and just get over the fact that it happens.
"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that." Dumbledore, Harry Potter
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I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes
But it's home to me and I walk alone
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Don't know where it goes
But it's home to me and I walk alone
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Oh man it's been really bad lately, and I can't do anything about it cause he's got a girlfriend, so I can't act on my feelings or anything. . . . . confusing
"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that." Dumbledore, Harry Potter
SI free for over 4 years........and counting!
I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes
But it's home to me and I walk alone
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I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes
But it's home to me and I walk alone
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yea no worries, when your body is sexually aroused, even by thoughts, you get "wet" theose fluids are lubricating you to prepare you vagina for sex. ; )
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2 words hun: perfectly normal!
Dont worry about it- discharge is normal and healthy as it is a cleaning process for the vagina. Many women get a lot of it. You may get more when you are nearer your period or so I have been told and it can depend on your diet. Also when you are sexually aroused- but this too is perfectly normal. I wouldnt worry too much about this. If it becomes a serious serious serious problem for you or you want reassurance, then go to see your GP but i promise it is normal
Dont worry about it- discharge is normal and healthy as it is a cleaning process for the vagina. Many women get a lot of it. You may get more when you are nearer your period or so I have been told and it can depend on your diet. Also when you are sexually aroused- but this too is perfectly normal. I wouldnt worry too much about this. If it becomes a serious serious serious problem for you or you want reassurance, then go to see your GP but i promise it is normal
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Re: What's Going On?
To be honest, I think that's really cool. I wish I got that. This reply is useless, just basically to say - don't feel so bad about it. You like the guy. You want the guy.
Erm.. sounds like you can't have the guy - but that's only a matter of time. Pounce on him when he's single and RELEASE all of this sexual frustration. He probably won't mind
Erm.. sounds like you can't have the guy - but that's only a matter of time. Pounce on him when he's single and RELEASE all of this sexual frustration. He probably won't mind
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Why would you want to control it... shit, in my mind, IT'S A GIFT. Just think that when you're actually ready for sex, you're less likely to need lube.
But on a serious note (haha)... it's normal. I get very easily aroused too... and it'll happen to me in school, and sometimes I'll have to go check and make sure it's not my period because it's so heavy! So, just don't worry about it. No one else can notice it except for you (unless someones touching you down there), so theres nothing to be ashamed or worried about.
But on a serious note (haha)... it's normal. I get very easily aroused too... and it'll happen to me in school, and sometimes I'll have to go check and make sure it's not my period because it's so heavy! So, just don't worry about it. No one else can notice it except for you (unless someones touching you down there), so theres nothing to be ashamed or worried about.
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Re: What's Going On?
Thanks everyone. Yeah I know it's normal for it to happen. It just sucks that I can't show him how much I like him, because then this might happen less often.
"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that." Dumbledore, Harry Potter
SI free for over 4 years........and counting!
I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes
But it's home to me and I walk alone
SI free for over 4 years........and counting!
I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes
But it's home to me and I walk alone