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My Prom Night

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Yeah, I feel like getting another question off my mind here. A few monthes ago it was prom, and HURAAH I had the date of my choice. I had found out she had, and i mean this, had sex a LOT! well, she kind of wanted to get it with me! I am a complete virgin FYI, aint even kissed! So I told her no. I didnt say it but i want confertable with the number of guys she had been with (I didnt say that though). I feel like I hurt her feelings cause she has stopped talking to me. I'm not that distressed about it, but did I do the right thing? Am i just too much of a wuss?
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Maybe she's embarresed that she was coming on too strong and thinx that u dont wanna talk to her no more. If she's actually ur friend u should try to talk to her about it, but if she's not really your friend - then just forget about. You'll have heaps of other opurtunies for sex when ur ready! :rolleyes:
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You did the right thing. I don't think many guys would want to sleep with a s**t.
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If you weren't comfortable with the idea, then of course you did the right thing. Well done for saying no :)
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u did the right thing, but u may have deterred her confidence because u said no when she came on to you, so talk 2 her and tell her it wasnt her that made u said no but u just felt totally uncomfortable doing it with her and at that time
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Dude your fucking awesome. I don't know many guys like you and I am glad you made that choice. Just keep on acting like that and you will be safe. Rock on!!!!!!
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You did the right thing.? I don't think many guys would want to sleep with a s**t.




How does a girl become a s**t if most guys dont wanna sleep with one?


*most* guys.

Uh oh, I feel a rant coming on...

I think it's unfair that if a girl has sex a lot she's called a s**t, but if a guy were to have sex the same amount of times he's just a guy. I wouldn't say the girl is a s**t, she's just more experienced. Think what you want.



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Where do you get the impression that a guy would still be just a guy then? s**t isn't gender related you know..
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Where do you get the impression that a guy would still be just a guy then? s**t isn't gender related you know..




How many times have you heard of a guy being called a s**t? Not very often. If a guy sleeps witha ton of girls, he is concitered a "hero". If a girl sleeps with a bunch of guys she is concitered a s**t/w*re and is thought of as someone that doesn't care about her body.
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Originally posted by Cindy@May 12 2003, 03:32 PM



Where do you get the impression that a guy would still be just a guy then? s**t isn't gender related you know..






How many times have you heard of a guy being called a s**t? Not very often. If a guy sleeps witha ton of girls, he is concitered a "hero". If a girl sleeps with a bunch of guys she is concitered a s**t/w*re and is thought of as someone that doesn't care about her body.


I totally agree! I mean I am sexually active and I admit I do enjoy sex. I am comfortable with my sexuality and my sex life...fair enough I do have sex a lot. But not with loads of different people - even if I did, what difference would it make? Lots of people have sex...its human nature for gods sake! :rolleyes:

I mean I use contraception and I am a responsible mature person...So yeah I'm a s**t - whatever. :blink:



I don't think that that girl is a s**t...she is just experienced. She may have used contraception all of the time. And how do you know for a 100% fact she has slept with so many guys? Have you asked her? Thought not. :rolleyes:

There is a LOT of rumours going about me...I mean I must have had this whole group of guys fuck me...oh but they are rumours so they must be true right? Bullshit. :lol:

All I can say is it is up to you whether or not you wanted to have sex with her...and good on ya that you wasn't pressured into it and managed to say no. Not mainly people could have done that. She may be hurt by this...just speak to her and tell her it was because you are a virgin and felt uncomfortable - She should understand.

But like I said...she isn't a s**t because she enjoys sex. :P


How does a girl become a s**t if most guys dont wanna sleep with one?


I second that. I thought guys like experienced girlies anyway...they know what they are doing in the bedroom department. ;)
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Look's like I'd better clarify what I meant.



What DECENT RESPECTABLE guy would want to sleep with a s**t?
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Originally posted by fruitloop@May 12 2003, 04:31 PM

What DECENT RESPECTABLE guy would want to sleep with a s**t?


Well they wouldn't...but I guess it depends on what you think a s**t is.



I personally think that a s**t is someone who doesn't give a shit about anyone...nothing in life other than sex and ways to get more of it and then even doesn't use contraception.



I do not think that a girl who enjoys sex is a s**t though...it sounds as if you do. :P Like you once said "The body is there to be appreciated...so why not let people appreciate it?"???? :P



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Yes CK88, I agree with your definition of a s**t.
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Originally posted by fruitloop@May 12 2003, 05:50 PM

Yes CK88, I agree with your definition of a s**t.


You agree with me, yet you still classify that girl as a s**t? :blink:
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Well who am I to keep you down

It's only right that you should play the way you feel it

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Of your loneliness



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In the stillness of remembering what you had

And what you lost



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