How Far Is Too Far?

motoman · Post by **motoman** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 3:56 am

this is mainly a question for the girls...

how far is are you girls willing to go? would you (girls) tell a guy to stop when you feel he is going to far? or do you think you would get "encouraged" to keep going and not stop him? please state your age and what you would do, thanks.

Crazy Bird · Post by **Crazy Bird** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 8:09 am

I'm a 15 bisexual chick...but I find it perfectly okay if I tell a guy to cool it down a little. I have in the past and in turned out alright...If a guy is going WAY too fast then he should be told he is - not to be mean to him...but he may not realise HOW fast he is going.

If you tell him in the nicest way possible then things should go smoothly

Gambit006 · Post by **Gambit006** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 8:16 am

i agree with ck, if a guy is going too fast id tell him and expect him to stop or slow down. oh..im 18.

Cindy · Post by **Cindy** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 9:54 am

if i feel that hes going to far, i will tell him how i feel, and i'd expect him to stop. Not stopping just will end up w/ him in a lot of pain

Age:17

clumsiest1 · Post by **clumsiest1** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 11:17 am

Well, I'm 17. I usually want to go all the way all the time. It's my hormones over my mind. I'll get to a certain point (usually when hands are where they shouldn't be) and I will tell myself that we need to stop...but I don't, mainly because my body wants it but my mind is tellling me something totally different. So I end up doing it and then feeling bad after. What is really cool is that my boyfriend is the SAME EXACT way...he'll apologize and everything...

unoshawty · Post by **unoshawty** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 3:57 pm

I'm 15, and well... when i dont want him doing anything i either tell him or beat him up the best i can.

She · Post by **She** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 4:06 pm

I'm fourteen. Furthest I've gone is frenching, with my last boyfriend I probably would have let him go a little further (pity he didn't figure that out before he dumped me). But yeah, I draw my line... no genital touching or that. Mhm.

Now, if I'm with a guy and he starts going too far, I'd probably push him away, growl at him or something and not in the seductive way (I use vocal influctions sometimes instead of actually talking). If he didn't get the message, I'd just punch him. Then kick him. Then pull his hair. Then go for the balls. Because after that many warnings, it's just flat-out RAPE.

Yeah. That's my strategy.

daffodildreams · Post by **daffodildreams** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 4:08 pm

I'd say, I'd smack if necessary. Punch kick scream.. whatever it takes.

Lol

aesgoddess13 · Post by **aesgoddess13** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 4:09 pm

im 16 and when im foolin around w/ a guy i just go with it. if i feel he's going too far i'll tell him but most of the time, i get in the mood and keep going!

Kristina · Post by **Kristina** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 5:56 pm

If its with someone whos jsut totally gross im jsut like get the fuck awayu and if they dont hahah ai would just pinnchhh them

SexyfRiSkYPanda · Post by **SexyfRiSkYPanda** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 6:18 pm

13 here (freshman next year...yes!) And the farthest I've gone is to have a guy go up my shirt. I am extremely over protective of myself because of what happened when I was a kid, so if they dont take no for an answer, they either get flipped, their arm broken, or if I like them, restrained forcefully. Haha...I'm Into the whole self defense thing. And I have had to flip a few guys...they got the message after that. *Bows* Komap sumnida

~Love Always~

Amber! xoxo

skaterGuy15 · Post by **skaterGuy15** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 6:52 pm

archers_angel · Post by **archers_angel** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 7:02 pm

Girl, 18.

hmmmmmm. personally, i cant stand 'frenching' someone unless their hands are 'wondering' a bit. it feels so unattached. just sittin there with your hands to yourself. there has to be a bit of gropage!!!

but yes, if i wasnt comfortable, id stop them.

Sam · Post by **Sam** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 7:06 pm

I'm 17 and I would definately tell a guy to stop if I felt uncomfortable with anything. I have had sex and shit but thats because I am in love and want to express it. But at the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend there were times when I did say stop and even now I still say stop sometimes.

XxSunnIExX · Post by **XxSunnIExX** » Mon Jun 02, 2003 7:36 pm

16.... if i wasnt completely comfortable wit wat the guy was doin, id stop him. like sya we were makin out n his hands were wondering, id simply jsus move his hands elsewhere lol... n if he goes bak to the same spot ill say sumthin

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