Guys Masturbate Together?
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Guys Masturbate Together?
For straight guys. I head it in my health class teenagers like to experiment at the teen years. Is it true?
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uh...who is this directed to exactly?
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Originally posted by oneforthemoney@Aug 31 2003, 02:05 AM
uh...who is this directed to exactly?
lol, straight men?
possibly, Tally..
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Hi radical~!!
Being 'curious' is a very natural part of the growing up process. As a direct result of that curiousity - many boys go through an 'experimentation' stage. [where they have direct physical/sexual contact with other boys - almost always their 'best friend' or a 'cousin'] They want [and need] to know IF they 'measure up'. AND I don't just mean penis size - but in all ways. [muscles, body hair, etc., etc.] Not all boys do this - but I believe that the majority do. Boys also want [and NEED] to know that their OWN sex considers them to be acceptable and lovable. That particular 'need' is especially great in boys who have yet to experience any real sense of same-sex love. [like the love of a father] Just as a girl needs to bond with her OWN sex - boys need to bond with their own sex - too. As boys get older and start puberty - they become 'sexual' and often 'romantisize' the relationships they have with their same-sex pals. For most boys - this stage in life doesn't last too long. But for other boys - it lasts a life time. Tragically - most boys have been shamed into denying any feelings of love they may have for other boys. They have been taught that 'love' is wrong - and that no boy should EVER love another boy. For many boys that shame is so great that they buckle under the pressure to conform and end up living their entire lives in denial of their NEED to be close to other guys. I've lost count of the number of guys MY age [who I have talked to over the years] who are married with kids and yet have NO same sex friends. They are truly lonely and sad. AND for the most part - their wives have no idea just how sad their husbands really are. [but that's another message]
Many teenage guys DO have 'jack-off-buddies'. I think that's quite normal and natural. And considering the fact that most guys ARE straight - the overwhelming majority of guys who have a 'special buddy' are also straight. Most guys give up those types of relationship soon after they start having girlfriends - however.
AND just so you know....
Having a 'jack-off-buddy' has NOTHING to do with sexual orientation.
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Being 'curious' is a very natural part of the growing up process. As a direct result of that curiousity - many boys go through an 'experimentation' stage. [where they have direct physical/sexual contact with other boys - almost always their 'best friend' or a 'cousin'] They want [and need] to know IF they 'measure up'. AND I don't just mean penis size - but in all ways. [muscles, body hair, etc., etc.] Not all boys do this - but I believe that the majority do. Boys also want [and NEED] to know that their OWN sex considers them to be acceptable and lovable. That particular 'need' is especially great in boys who have yet to experience any real sense of same-sex love. [like the love of a father] Just as a girl needs to bond with her OWN sex - boys need to bond with their own sex - too. As boys get older and start puberty - they become 'sexual' and often 'romantisize' the relationships they have with their same-sex pals. For most boys - this stage in life doesn't last too long. But for other boys - it lasts a life time. Tragically - most boys have been shamed into denying any feelings of love they may have for other boys. They have been taught that 'love' is wrong - and that no boy should EVER love another boy. For many boys that shame is so great that they buckle under the pressure to conform and end up living their entire lives in denial of their NEED to be close to other guys. I've lost count of the number of guys MY age [who I have talked to over the years] who are married with kids and yet have NO same sex friends. They are truly lonely and sad. AND for the most part - their wives have no idea just how sad their husbands really are. [but that's another message]
Many teenage guys DO have 'jack-off-buddies'. I think that's quite normal and natural. And considering the fact that most guys ARE straight - the overwhelming majority of guys who have a 'special buddy' are also straight. Most guys give up those types of relationship soon after they start having girlfriends - however.
AND just so you know....
Having a 'jack-off-buddy' has NOTHING to do with sexual orientation.
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Originally posted by kneesofmybees+Aug 31 2003, 02:28 AM--<table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'<tr<tdQUOTE (kneesofmybees @ Aug 31 2003, 02:28 AM)</td</tr<tr<td id='QUOTE'<!--QuoteBegin-oneforthemoney@Aug 31 2003, 02:05 AM
uh...who is this directed to exactly?
lol, straight men?
possibly, Tally..[/b][/quote]
lol...i didn't know either...so..i just ignored it...lol...
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I'm not a guy but I can answer this. Some do - some don't.
My STRAIGHT male friends who actually have girlfriends have masterbated together in a group whilst I was there before (They was playing a game called "Risk it" - you may have heard of it. Hehehe its so funny! )
And there was like a whole circle of guys just jacking off and then there was me just sat there LOL I felt so stupid but turned on...LOL
Anyways so yeah it depends on how "open" and how "comfortable" a guy is with his body etc.
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My STRAIGHT male friends who actually have girlfriends have masterbated together in a group whilst I was there before (They was playing a game called "Risk it" - you may have heard of it. Hehehe its so funny! )
And there was like a whole circle of guys just jacking off and then there was me just sat there LOL I felt so stupid but turned on...LOL
Anyways so yeah it depends on how "open" and how "comfortable" a guy is with his body etc.
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Yea, I've heard of "Risk It" before, I don't exactly remember the rules though, I just know that I've heard about it. I do think thats pretty nasty though, in my oppinion, but yea some guys do it, but I don't think ALOT doOriginally posted by Crazy Bird@Aug 31 2003, 08:11 PM
I'm not a guy but I can answer this. Some do - some don't.
My STRAIGHT male friends who actually have girlfriends have masterbated together in a group whilst I was there before (They was playing a game called "Risk it" - you may have heard of it. Hehehe its so funny! )
And there was like a whole circle of guys just jacking off and then there was me just sat there LOL I felt so stupid but turned on...LOL
Anyways so yeah it depends on how "open" and how "comfortable" a guy is with his body etc.
~ Keli xxx
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no i have never did it w/ another guy, as much as i would like too though...haha...
but in the future i am gunna w/ another guy---imma gay
but in the future i am gunna w/ another guy---imma gay
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OH i was just wondering cuz in health class the teacher was talking about how some guys like to experiment together in the teenage years.
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Er, nah. Haven't done that, and not planning on it any time soon.
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What the heck is "RIsk IT" ?
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There were rumors going around about my exbf trying to get a group of guys together to have a porn/masturbating party. Never asked him if they were true or not...
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