I have this very graphic dream a lot recently and I don't understand it.
It's always about some guy who is a huge homophobe and is bashing my and my gay/bi/lesbian friends. Then I'm taking him and forcing him to have sex with me so hard that he cries, just so he can see what it's like to be in my shoes and how I feel when people say these things. So I'm basically punishing him through rape and it really disturbs me because it's not anything that I would ever do. Not saying that I wouldn't love to have sex with him.. but.. you get what I'm saying. It just makes me feel like I can't always control myself when I know that I can. Why do I do that in my head if I wouldn't ever do it in life? It really concerns me
Get out of my head!
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Ya know.....you been watching too much tv/porn/real life tv? or what? No I'm serious.. sometimes television or other people's stories get stuck in your subconcious and creeps up in the weirdest places...
Just whenever you are or will be with him.. take it easy and take it slow and don't let that freak you out, otherwise you'll always have that stuck in your head.
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Just whenever you are or will be with him.. take it easy and take it slow and don't let that freak you out, otherwise you'll always have that stuck in your head.
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yea just do what oneforthemoney said. couldnt have said it better.
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Re: Dream
dreams are what you want to happen in life but you know that it won't happen? ya know? mabey you are watching too much porn, but you said that you want to have sex w/ him...but you know that you can't...i have dreams like that...umm...6 nights a wk, but it never deals w/ rape...mabey there you have an issue...would you go to that extream? because if so, then you need to get help...like i said dreams are your personality, and if rape is your personality...not good
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Hey you, chill. Listen, dreams are like the left-overs of reality, and yes, they can teach us many things if we listen- but they're certainly not to be taken literally (all the time). . . I mean, I'm a HUGE cat lover, and when I was a kid I had this horrific dream where I hugged a kitten's head off. . . it was incredibly disturbing. . . but I know I'd never do it in real life, esp. because I was so upset by it. You seem really upset about this dream- probably because it goes against every part of your personality, so don't worry about being a rapist or something like that. You don't have control over your dreams, but you do have a certain degree of control over your reality.
I think the reason why you've been having these dreams was answered in your own post- you obviously think the guy is hot, but at the same time, you hate his guts because he's an ass when it comes to diversity- mix that up in the brain, and what do you get? Punishment through rape. It's actually pretty logical.
But it's not reality, nor will it ever be. So don't worry, it was just a dream!!!!
I think the reason why you've been having these dreams was answered in your own post- you obviously think the guy is hot, but at the same time, you hate his guts because he's an ass when it comes to diversity- mix that up in the brain, and what do you get? Punishment through rape. It's actually pretty logical.
But it's not reality, nor will it ever be. So don't worry, it was just a dream!!!!
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Hey dude, first off, sorry that you are so confused about this dream but its not that big a deal. I agree with true, its not real its just a dream. So you dream about this guy and raping him, it doesnt mean you will. Im the first to tell you dreams are more than what they seem, but this isnt a sign of you being a pervert or actualy wanting to do anything. Your dream isnt telling you to rape him, its telling you that you want him to understand what you have to go through in life and that he isnt making it easier. Give it time, eventualy your dream will change, just dont brood over it stay cool. Much Luck-Dorian
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