I'm Kinda Stupid

[Paris In Flames]

Kayyyy here's the deal.

Please don't move this to relationships.

Because I don't want this from a perspective of, "well, this relationship could be like..."

No.

I want it to be dealing with sexuality.

And how somebody would approach it from that.



I'm dating a girl.

She's amazing.

She's hot.

She's adorable.

I'm also dating a boy.

The most metrosexual straight boy you could ever meet. (Jeff, I think he'd kick your ass in the metrosexual department).

He's really nice.

And sweet.



Neither of them know about each other.

And I'm not sure if I should tell them.

Sarah, the girl, is bisexual. Do you think she'd understand?

Ryan, the straight boy, would probably be hurt.

But I don't know.

And I don't know how to approach him and tell him this.

He knows that I'm not straight.

And I'm like.....uggg....



Frusterated?



I don't know what I'm thinking.

But this is going to be one hell of a summer.



Any ideas if I should keep this in the open or tell them?



Cheers,



Jenna

[Beautiful]

I think you should tell them... Or just dump one of them..

To the guy; just be like. Okay. Well, theres this girl I like.. And i'm kinda dating her.. I'm sure he'll actually understand better then your girlfriend would.

And to your girlfriend... I have no idea. I think she would be hurt more though :-/ hmmm...

But I love yoU

[SirPostAlot]

hmm...well just becuase its me, i would tell them of each other and honostly choose one of them...

im not fond of dating two people at once, becauase put yourself into their shoes - how would you feel if you found out that sarah had a bf on the side?



so i think that you should choose one of them, inform both of eachother - and hope to god that the one you choose chooses you back (i don't know about you but if i was dating someone and found out that they were dating someone else but they choose me - i mean yeah i would be flattered, but pissed at the same time and wouldn't choose them back)...



but thats what i would do...

honosty is key in any relationship



~Jeff~



haha, yeah im sure he would - im not that metroy...haha

[Stuck911]

Before you just tell them, ask them both if they would hate being in an open relationship. If they both say they don'tmind then your fine. If they both do or if one does, then you should tell them.

[SirPostAlot]

honostly, im not sure that they would be "fine" w/ it and even if they do say they are ok, they may be diseving you . . .



i mean you can go about it any way, but i think yous hould definitly tell them asap, the sooner the better...



~jeff~

[Fishhead]

Girls are so much more emotional than boys though..

So the girlfriend would probably be really hurt by it..

whereas guys tend to be more territorial..

I dunno..who do you want to be with more?

[Doug]

Girls are so much more emotional than boys though..

So the girlfriend would probably be really hurt by it..

whereas guys tend to be more territorial..

I dunno..who do you want to be with more?

[/b]

Everyone knows she's gay and doesn't like the penis. He wouldn't be hurt at all by it (well, he shouldn't).

im not that metroy...haha

[/b]

Babe, yes you are.

[CausticTears]

Everyone knows she's gay and doesn't like the penis. He wouldn't be hurt at all by it (well, he shouldn't).

[/b]

If she's gay, what date a boy? Obviously, the guy will be hurt too. She's dating him, so why wouldn't he be hurt? Unless, he wants to be her gineau pig?



To the issue: you could go on not telling them anything and if they find out themselves, then so be it... you can then explain you're trying polygamous relationships? Or if you feel that's not right, tell them now that you're dating two people. If I were you, I'd just be truthful. If you like them both, let them know you like them both and want to still date them. They both may be hurt; they probably will be hurt. But, being hurt fades.

=) Good luck

[Paris In Flames]

::le sigh::



No, Doug, he's straight.

Not all people have to follow stereotypes.

I.e. YOU.



Umm...yeah, I'm still not sure.

I'm going out with Sarah tomorrow night...I went out with Ryan today.

My friends think that I should decide when I get back from LA....I'm leaving on Friday.

That'll give me time to clear my head.



I guess.

[CausticTears]

::le sigh::



No, Doug, he's straight.

Not all people have to follow stereotypes.

I.e. YOU.



Umm...yeah, I'm still not sure.

I'm going out with Sarah tomorrow night...I went out with Ryan today.

My friends think that I should decide when I get back from LA....I'm leaving on Friday.

That'll give me time to clear my head.



I guess.

[/b]

ohh, are you going to LA pride then? It's this weekend.



Good luck

[Stuck911]

Are you going to come to SF Pride? Anyways sounds like a good idea to clear out your head.

[SirPostAlot]

well good luck with your decision, hun...

just don't take too long clearing your head, the longer you wait to tell, most likily the lower of a chance of acceptance is in the end



~Jeff~

[Paris In Flames]

...There's LA pride this weekend?

Haha, I was just going to down to visit a friend.

I might go, I don't think so though.

I hate gay pride festivals.

I promised my ex that I'd go to SF pride with her.

As much as I don't want to, I'm one of those people who keeps every single stupid promise.



I'll tell you guys my decision when I get back.

Dolly - wanna go to LA pride with me?



Cheers,



Jenna

[Stuck911]

Jenna if your going to SF pride tell me!!!

[CausticTears]

...There's LA pride this weekend?

Haha, I was just going to down to visit a friend.

I might go, I don't think so though.

I hate gay pride festivals.

I promised my ex that I'd go to SF pride with her.

As much as I don't want to, I'm one of those people who keeps every single stupid promise.



I'll tell you guys my decision when I get back.

Dolly - wanna go to LA pride with me?



Cheers,



Jenna

[/b]

lol Im going for sure on Sunday. But hey, I'd be down to see you! =P

[Paris In Flames]

Ahhh, I went to Pride.

Both days actually.

I thought I spotted you but I wasn't sure, and then I got dragged away.



I had a lot of fun.

[CausticTears]

Glad you had fun =) I went on Sunday