i think im scared to know the truth =[

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i think im scared to know the truth =[

Post by Angelique » Wed Dec 17, 2008 6:15 pm

ok.. so i think i may be bi, and im actually scared to know the truth... maybe, is it that im scared f what my family/ friends are going to think? yeah, i know i should love who i love but im still scared to lose the little friends i do have.. and.. God, i just dont know.. any advice..?

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Re: i think im scared to know the truth =[

Post by Fishhead » Wed Dec 17, 2008 9:11 pm

The truth is if they're truly your friends its not going to ruin your friendships. I've been dating my girlfriend (I am a girl by the way..my username makes it not obvious) for over 7 months now and everyone we know has taken it really well. This includes my mom who is very religious and we thought for sure was going to kick me out. Also, you don't need to worry about labeling yourself as bi, straight, gay, etc. Just be who you are. I'm 18 and I still don't know for sure what I am; I just know that I love my girlfriend and it doesn't matter what I call myself, ya know? Just give it time. You may feel that you are bi now and decide in a few years that you aren't. So really labeling yourself isn't such a big deal..just date who you wanna date..

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Post by Spitfire » Thu Dec 18, 2008 11:33 am

Yeah, ignoring the labels is the biggest and easiest thing you can do. Focus on figuring out yourself instead of WHAT you are. I'm sure that as long as you're being yourself and truly happy nobody will reject you or your partner!
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