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- lesbianlover
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ok... i need some help here... my mom like makes fun of me because i am a lesbian.. how could i get her to stop...
please help
jelly
please help
jelly
awesome o wow like totaly freak me out i mean right on.... jelly sure is #1
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- Crazy Bird
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Maybe you should try talking to her? I mean she might not know how much it affects you...it might be just a little joke to her. Tell her it hurts your feelings and would appreciate it greatly if she stopped. She should take the hint and stop.
Good luck darling,
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~ Keli xx
~ Tell me all your problems & I'll try my best to kiss them all away ~
Now here you go again, you say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost
Well It's only me that wants to wrap around your dreams
I love you...
Now here you go again, you say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost
Well It's only me that wants to wrap around your dreams
I love you...
- lesbianlover
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but u kno.. it sux because my mom is like really mean because my cousin is a gurl and shes bi... so wen i go over shes like o no eating each others carpet and no kissing cousins.. thats freaking mean!
awesome o wow like totaly freak me out i mean right on.... jelly sure is #1
cheerleaders are dancers who have gone retarded
said the wise one (sparky palasktri )
BRING IT ON!!
cheerleaders are dancers who have gone retarded
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BRING IT ON!!
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Tell HER how YOU feel...I think it's for the best if you do.
My mum always makes me laugh, I am bisexual and she goes to me "Ya muff muncha" LMFAO! I just crack up, she makes me laugh because I don't take it to heart. Maybe you shouldn't either? Your mum is probably just messing about.
My mum always makes me laugh, I am bisexual and she goes to me "Ya muff muncha" LMFAO! I just crack up, she makes me laugh because I don't take it to heart. Maybe you shouldn't either? Your mum is probably just messing about.
~ Tell me all your problems & I'll try my best to kiss them all away ~
Now here you go again, you say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost
Well It's only me that wants to wrap around your dreams
I love you...
Now here you go again, you say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost
Well It's only me that wants to wrap around your dreams
I love you...
- Saren
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Awww. That's just mean. I think you SHOULD talk to her about it and let her know exactly how you feel about it all. Let her know you mean it...well, not in a way to make her real mad but it sucks when people do that because of your sexuality. I know because I'm bi and people think it's funny when they make jokes about it. But, don't worry, I'm sure you guys can work it through...I hope....In the meantime, much love hunz!
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dude, your mom is not cool. My parents do that too. I've learned it just makes them feel like they still have some kind of power thus making them feel better about themselves. We're growing up and that scares some people like your parents (your mom in this case). Another reason... maybe... could be she wants to talk to you about it and doesn't know how to say it. My advice is to either say something witty once in awhile to shut her up or just smile and nod. The smiling and nodding thing works like a charm in ALL situations lol.
People forget that parents are people. Parent's forget that sometimes too. Sometimes they think that your world revolves around them... it's not all selfishness... I mean, they made you I'm not saying to treat them like they treat you. That never works if your in a bad place. Just be cool about it and it'll stop I promise
People forget that parents are people. Parent's forget that sometimes too. Sometimes they think that your world revolves around them... it's not all selfishness... I mean, they made you I'm not saying to treat them like they treat you. That never works if your in a bad place. Just be cool about it and it'll stop I promise
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sorry sam, had to edit this post becuse it was considered "fighting"
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Wow Catholic_Baby_Girl that was really uncalled for. When people are upset it's really not helpful to say those kinds of things. I'm all for being opinionated but theirs a time and place for everything and what you said was totally inapropiate. How would you like it if I said 'being a catholic is unhealy, get help'. See how dumb that sounds? You need to be a little more open minded and if thats to much for you then learn when to shut your mouth and not say anything. You obviously have no idea what it's like to be a minority or what it's like to be hated for something that you have no control over. Show some compassion...
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Being Gay or Lesbian is not "unhealthy". It is not a problem, nor is it a fault in one's self.
Sure, guys have penis's, and girls have vagina's but that doesnt mean girls cant like girls, or guys cant like guys. Sure i totally agree it means a girl cannot have a baby with another girl solely, as the girl relies on sperm from the man. Same with Gay guys... they cant have babies on their own, but they can with a donnor host (girl).
Either way, Catholic_Baby_Girl, I understand the catholic religion is to forbid Gay's and Lesbians however this is not the 19th centruy... We are in the 21st century and being Gay and Lesbian's are accepted. Do not give responses that don't give any help or may cause further trama to a situation, simply because religion is slow to catch up with the times.
Sure, guys have penis's, and girls have vagina's but that doesnt mean girls cant like girls, or guys cant like guys. Sure i totally agree it means a girl cannot have a baby with another girl solely, as the girl relies on sperm from the man. Same with Gay guys... they cant have babies on their own, but they can with a donnor host (girl).
Either way, Catholic_Baby_Girl, I understand the catholic religion is to forbid Gay's and Lesbians however this is not the 19th centruy... We are in the 21st century and being Gay and Lesbian's are accepted. Do not give responses that don't give any help or may cause further trama to a situation, simply because religion is slow to catch up with the times.
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Yeah! you go OverDrive and Bean and PunkInTooDeep and you too Grasshopper Girl!
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The catholic church has called homosexuality a sin. The odd thing, all the priests seem to disagree.. And I also believe it is a sin to act as God in passing judgement on people. Clearly what you've done.. Now go confess! Repent! Be absolved! Also, while we're on the topic, i'd like to note that in the past a certain [un-named] religion has been found of doing unjust things. An example would be selling indulgences [beg to differ? guess how the Lutheran and Protestant churches came about - to fight against the "un-named, unfair religion"]...
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Well said resistfromnormal
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Oh mums can be weird can't they? My mum wasn't much help in my sexuality crisis either...we'd be watching tv and she'd say 'look...it's a woman....' and I'd be like 'umm...that's great mum' and her eyes would narrow and she would go 'really? IS it great?' silly mums!
Next time she makes fun of you, just tell her in a serious manner that you don't appreciate her mocking your sexuality, and that it hurts you that she's your mum and she's acting like this. Maybe she doesn't know that it affects you so bad??
Next time she makes fun of you, just tell her in a serious manner that you don't appreciate her mocking your sexuality, and that it hurts you that she's your mum and she's acting like this. Maybe she doesn't know that it affects you so bad??
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Im not in this situation because im not out to my family yet...
But I guess you really need to talk to her. Tell her that being a lesbian doesnt mean that you're attracted to every girl.
But I guess you really need to talk to her. Tell her that being a lesbian doesnt mean that you're attracted to every girl.
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dude, calm down. You were the one that dissed lesbians in the SEXUALLY group. Don't go switching the blame here. It takes a bigger person to admit they were wrong... live by that and you'll go far
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Not to get off topic, but, "bean" who dissed lesbians?? I didn't if you where talking to me. It'd be kinda hard for me to get away with that being gay myself and all.. lol..
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yeah i kinda got confused with the pages of this thing. I thought we were still on the first page but i guess it wasn't lol. I was talking to that catholic baby girl kid... sorry for any confusion
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LoLz. I know who you were talking about. I just can't take people like her. Sorry for the "telling-off" online guys. I just felt I had to take out my anger like that even though I shouldn't...
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