This Is Hard

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well my friend knew there was something up cause i wasnt talking most of the way to our basketball game a hour away.....so like the really good friend she is she wanted to kno what i was thinking about....well after a few minutes of talking i told her i was bi....she is the first person i have told at my new school and she took it the best out of everyone i have told so far.... :lol: she was cool with it and was like "ur a great friend and i dont care if ya like boys and girls, u'll always be nikki to me" soooo...yah i am happy i finally had the courage to tell someone....she even lets me talk about my crushes :wub: and doesnt cringe when its a girl lol ...now if only i could tell all my other friends.....lol....one day!
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Congrats on your "coming out"!!!!!!



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I think the first person you tell will be the best. I know the first person I told, and she's remained the most supportive/best friend I could ever have..
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Congrats

I hope everything goes well

and stuff

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hey good job, if i was ur friend, i wouldnt be cringed out by ur bi-crushes, in fact id be pretty excited lol!!!
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yep, congrast on your cooming out! it was hard for me to, and i only came out to a few ppl, but eventually others start findin out too! i hope everything goes well for you!
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Congrats!! :woot:

Its always nice to have someone to talk to about your sexuality. After telling a few ppl, I think comming out is easier (to friends).
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haha well update for all the great ppl here....i told all me good friends at my school which is like only 5 but o-well....it did get a lot easier....i was like "if u are not straight u are...." and they said "ga" and then i went "cut that in half" and i dunno it was so funny when i said it.....they are all so cool about it and supportive and they arent all like "do u like me" so its all cool i am very happy today :D
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you have the fist step down, which is the hardest. the first person you tell is always hard, but then it's easier, like your telling some one who wasn't cought up in the latest news. :P
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thats awesome! she sounds like an awesome friend...a total keeper! hehe ;)
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