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Yeah, hi, PLEASE HELP!

Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 4:56 pm

My dad is threatening to send me to a school in my town with lots of bullies. I'm of course like nooooooooooooooooo! But he is insisting. Any advice on how to deal with bullies?
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Post by Dots » Wed Dec 18, 2002 7:31 pm

Swing your foot at their nuts and push...

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Post by xxwhereisfredxx » Wed Dec 18, 2002 7:37 pm

why don't you just bully them first?? lol
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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 7:37 pm

Originally posted by Dots@Dec 18 2002, 11:31 PM

Swing your foot at their nuts and push...


Haha, that'll get me suspended, but thanks.
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 7:50 pm

Originally posted by Dr. Thaadeous Ozone@Dec 18 2002, 11:46 PM

Its simple. Anybody who starts messin' with you, shove them n say: "Keep fucking with me and I'll fucking beat da shit outta you, understand?"



If dat doesn't work and they keep messin' with you, do it.


I actually would too. Thanks guys!
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 8:53 pm

Originally posted by Paranoid@Dec 19 2002, 12:39 AM

Yea but that really wont solve it for everyone. What if the person being bullied was a lil guy and EVERYONE (even himself) knew he couldnt inflict more then a wince in someones expression?

What would you do then? I mean, violence is a great way to solve something, but its not the ONLY way.


Then what do you propose I do?
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 9:02 pm

TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by She » Wed Dec 18, 2002 9:03 pm

Get Tealy's Godfather mafia ass on them.



No, but seriously...



Try and get in with a good crowd, so you have people to back you up... if it looks like you're gonna get beat up try and get in an area where you'll be seen by an adult or someone - or go into a teacher's room when they're there. If all else fails, run. Hide in the bathroom, if they're of the opposite gender. And hey, if they land a blow on you, they're the ones that get suspended. Just don't fight back, if you absolutely cannot get out of it any other way. Don't act all big and bad, they'll probably enjoy crushing an ego.



Have you expressed your concerns to your dad, that you actually fear for your safety? Do it responsibly and be honest.. maybe he'll listen. Or start crying, y'know, whichever. ;)
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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 9:07 pm

He still won't care. My parents motto for tears are they mean nothing. And i've already told him, but he thinks he's doing me a favor........... :'(
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 9:17 pm

Originally posted by Paranoid@Dec 19 2002, 01:13 AM

Well gee. What did you do to get you into this mess?


:'( :'( My parents are phsycotic abusive people who found out I told my teacher in my :still current: school about everything that has and is happening in my life, and that was a pretty ugly scene. :'( :'( :'( :'(
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 9:39 pm

That's what my teacher had my school do, but it takes a few months
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by Dots » Wed Dec 18, 2002 10:06 pm

anyone ever see The New Guy - the movie?

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Post by Dots » Wed Dec 18, 2002 10:41 pm

...yeah, you're right...



...BUT its still a cool movie...



AND ELIZA DUSHKU IS FUCKING HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Post by spatulaoflove » Fri Dec 20, 2002 6:33 pm

just be really nice to people, and u can ussualy tell how bad people are like watching the way they walk, i'm ussually nice to everone and if they say something mean just laugh and think of y it was funny and imagne u saying it to them lol, i dunno i've never had much bullie problems but i've found that being nice, and up beat to everyone gets u many friends in different like areas lol, i have tons of connections *laughes evilily*
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Post by girlyluvR4life » Sun Jan 26, 2003 9:39 pm

altho its cliche..........





do unto others, as you want done unto you




unfortuantly there are TONS AND TONS of ppl who dont abide by the 'golden rule' and no matter what, just thrive on causing problems between them and other ppl or other ppl/other ppl. the key point is, as long as you are nice and lead a good life, you will almost always get good rewards in the long run. Having a good aspect on life, leads to good karma. (well in my eyes at least)
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someone PLEASE knock a hole n my head, i can't wait to kiss this "life" goodbye.

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Post by Adnama » Thu Jan 30, 2003 9:34 pm

Practice freeky stares and facial expesions. Phycotic cross eyed smiles and that sorta thing, always works for me. But only do that when they start showing signs of messing with you, start of trying to be nice to every one and stuff.



The freaky stare thing works, its fun too, i love freeking people out ^.^
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Post by Sky » Fri Jan 31, 2003 6:43 pm

jus hide urself in a corner :ph34r:
<span style=\'font-family:Times\'Something told the wild geese

It was tine to go

Through the fields lay golden

Something wispered- "SNOW"

Leaves were green and stirring

Berries,luster-glossed

But beneath the warm feathers

Something cautioned- "FROST"

All the sagging orchards

Steamed With amber spice

But each wild breast stiffened

At rembered ice

Something told the wild geese

It was time to fly-

Summer sun was on their wings

Winter in their cry

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