Did I Do Something Wrong?

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Did I Do Something Wrong?

Post by Mail Order » Tue Feb 04, 2003 1:13 am

You see, my mom is always gone. She's either at work, or out with her b/f Sean. I seriously think that my mom's avoiding me. We never see eachother. And everytime that we do, she acts uncomfortable around me. Is it maybe because she dosen't accept that I'm gothic and Atheist(All of my family are Bible-Beaters)?



It seems like she's always out enjoying the drunken and passing out parts of life. I mean, I want my mom to be happy and everything, but I want to see her too... :ph34r:



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Re: Did I Do Something Wrong?

Post by MiKeYo » Tue Feb 04, 2003 1:21 am

she can hate what you look like and hate the fact that your Atheist (dont throw the fact that shes a bible beater in her face though...thats not very nice...you wouldnt like that if you were in some type of religion)but your still her little girl and shes your mom....confront her with the problem and talk about how you want a healthy relationship....and even though that might seem hard...its worth it in the long run ;)
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Re: Did I Do Something Wrong?

Post by iHEAVENn » Tue Feb 04, 2003 8:01 pm

explain to her how you feel. let her know you need her in your life. when kids hit a certain age parents think they dont need them anymore. sit her down and talk things out with her. im sure she loves you, she just might think everythings ok because you two dont talk. talking is really the only way to solve this. :)
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Post by FiZzBaW » Tue Feb 04, 2003 8:12 pm

One word TALK <<





-Talking about your issues with the person(s) you have a/an Issue(s) with, is the best way to work it out, As you see most people agree :-) )





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Re: Did I Do Something Wrong?

Post by Sky » Wed Feb 05, 2003 3:02 pm

I dont think ur mother should take it out on u... But i think u need 2 have a conversation with ur mom, She probally dosent understand u in a way... or maybe she is going through a hard time in her life & she may not have time 4 u but still that is no excuse or maybe she thinks that u dont wanna hang out with her...
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