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Post by Jaegermeister » Sat Feb 08, 2003 4:15 pm

Alright, some more info about me. I'm at college and a swimmer. My question is about this... There's another swimmer back from back home who swims with me. We met when I came out to college, he's a sophomore. I found something out about him from back home, and I'm not going to tell anyone here, but do I tell him and let him know that I won't tell anyone, or do I just not say anything?



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Post by iHEAVENn » Sat Feb 08, 2003 6:31 pm

well if its something that you think he wont like you knowing then dont tell him. if its something you think he would be ok with you knowing then tell him. its really up to you weather or not your willing to make him mad because of it. so just think about it for awhile. :)
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Post by Jaegermeister » Sat Feb 08, 2003 7:53 pm

Well it's kind of public knowledge back home, and I actually found it out by checking out our hometown's newspaper. So I think it would be safe to assume that he realizes that other people will know, and that I may know too. Still not sure what to do...



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Post by iHEAVENn » Sat Feb 08, 2003 8:34 pm

:) well then ask him about it.
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Post by FiZzBaW » Sun Feb 09, 2003 6:54 pm

Great advice monkey, Just bring it up lightly in a casual conversation. He shouldn

t react negitivly if you found out in a news paper, and he would most likely be happy that you do not plan on letting the people there know.



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