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I mean, every day, at the end of the day we would hug and kiss eachother on the cheek, thats what all of my (male) friends and I do. But we draw the line on french kissing. Anyway, the next day, I found out from one of his twin sisters that he liked me and wanted to go out with me. After I heard this, I thought about it for a few days and relized that I also liked him. So I dumped my boyfriend after my 15th birthday and went out with David. That was the most physical relationship I had ever had.
We didn't have sex, (as I am still a virgin) but he was the first to let me experience being fingered, eaten out, and letting him rub it on me. I was actually thinking I loved him. But apparently it was lust. 4 months into our relationship I found out that he had cheated on me with a 13 year old w*re (w*re meaning she lost her virginity 4 months before and had already had sex with 13 people). I confronted him about this and he admitted to it. When I asked him why, he just simply said, "Hey, you're not taking care of business, so I had to get mine elsewhere."
I was hurt, because he had been saying that he loved me and such, and that was my longest relationship with anyone. Anyway, being stupid, I forgave him. and in 5 months, he was trying to tell me that I was cheating on him because my best friend Omari and I were hugging and he (omari) gave me a kiss on the cheek.
He (david) got into my head making me think that it was all my fault. Then I decided that we should break up, I couldn't take feeling low all the time. I'm not one to hate people a whole bunch, but everyone, even Omari told me that David was a jerk.
I cannot stand David anymore, and I think that is a waste of a perfectly good friendship. I understand that I made the mistake of going out with him and wrecking our friendship. But... I don't like hating people. I kind of want his friendship back, but now he wont even talk to me. How should I tell him that I want to start over? I want to be his friend again, and maybe forget that we went out - or learn from it at least.
How would I go about that if he wont even speak to me?
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if he does let you talk, you need to explain how you feel about him. and tell him you want to start over. if hes not talking to you then theres really not awhole lot you can do, just ask someone to talk to him for ya
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Sometimes it's better to let things rest as they are. In becoming his friend you're opening yourself up to being taken advantage of again. Just as a warning.
If you want to talk to him, call him, email him, talk to him, just try to make clear your intentions: you want to be friends, never any more. If he agrees, cool. If not, keep trying until he starts being a jerk to you about it. Don't be TOO persistant, but you do want to let him know what you want to do.
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