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cheat or not

Post by Britt » Thu Dec 19, 2002 6:32 pm

If I have a boyfriend and I decide that I want to mess around with a chick, then I don't think its cheating. But then again I also do cuz its still doin stuff with someone who isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend. But I would never cheat on a girlfriend cuz I like chicks way more than guys. I only like guys for the sex(sometimes). Its like chicks(85%) guys(15%)


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Post by Barbies are Evil » Thu Dec 19, 2002 7:44 pm

It's wrong eiether way because you are doing something romantically or sexually with someone else, while in a relationship you are only supposed to do those things with the person you are in a relationship with.
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Re: cheat or not

Post by Sosa » Thu Dec 19, 2002 8:29 pm

yes, i believe its fine sometimes, it depends on some things.such as how long you have been together and how serious you are with the person.

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Post by Sam » Thu Dec 19, 2002 9:12 pm

I don't think its right. Cheating is cheating no matter with what sex.
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Re: cheat or not

Post by Britt » Fri Dec 20, 2002 5:59 pm

yeah, i've decided its wrong and im gona break up with my boyfriend today before i go to my best friends house. sounds like a good idea cuz i don't want to hurt him. So yeah, oi oi oi


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Post by oneforthemoney » Sat Dec 21, 2002 9:15 pm

Okay - I saw one of my friends....then I was away for 2 months, started going out with a guy, and then you know things were kinda weird cause when I saw my friend she knew I was dating a guy....so I didnt tell him about her...and I dunno if that counts for cheating...me and her were never going out

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Post by Tina » Sat Dec 21, 2002 9:19 pm

cheating is cheating... <_< no matter what way you look at it its wrong...
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Post by oneforthemoney » Sat Dec 21, 2002 9:40 pm

Well I never really did anything with her .... and then the guy and I broke up anyway...but still I think in my mind I might have been cheating on him cause I was thinking of her when I was with him.....*sigh*

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Re: cheat or not

Post by Barbies are Evil » Sat Dec 21, 2002 9:47 pm

Originally posted by Sosa@Dec 20 2002, 12:29 AM

yes, i believe its fine sometimes, it depends on some things.such as how long you have been together and how serious you are with the person.


That I do not agree with. Why be in a relationship with someone if you are attracted to someone else? To me it makes no sense.
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Re: cheat or not

Post by daloverlyme » Sun Dec 22, 2002 2:07 am

cheating in any form is wrong.




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Re: cheat or not

Post by daloverlyme » Sun Dec 22, 2002 9:08 pm

im not even sure why you would stay in a relationship if your contimplating cheating over and over again. Hurting is very hard and hurting someone else is just absolitly wrong, exspecially when it comes to a situation where maybe one person is in love with another person but they secretly dont love them, instead they go out and cheat with who ever and act innocent.




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