Falling For An Online Guy

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Falling For An Online Guy

Post by Jess » Wed Feb 12, 2003 6:12 pm

hey y'all

i met a guy online and he's really sweet. we get along well, and im finding myself totally crushing on him. how can i prevent this? he's so sweet!
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by Sk8r_4_LiFe » Wed Feb 12, 2003 6:14 pm

i dunno i think im crushing her too
Me: So do you like, HIM?

Rosca: No way, they suck. . .

Me: How can you say that, they're love METAL

Rosca: They ain't Metal!

Me: Well they probably get more women than we will ever in our lives combined

Rosca: Yea cause they're gay. . .

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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by skaterGuy15 » Wed Feb 12, 2003 6:29 pm

err...u two aren't talking about each other are you????? :blink:
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by Jess » Wed Feb 12, 2003 6:45 pm

:wub: maybe?
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by frost » Wed Feb 12, 2003 6:48 pm

lol

and... u wanna.. prevent it?

why?
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Post by Sk8r_4_LiFe » Wed Feb 12, 2003 6:52 pm

its really hard when u live like 12 hours away
Me: So do you like, HIM?

Rosca: No way, they suck. . .

Me: How can you say that, they're love METAL

Rosca: They ain't Metal!

Me: Well they probably get more women than we will ever in our lives combined

Rosca: Yea cause they're gay. . .

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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by frost » Wed Feb 12, 2003 6:54 pm

the distance doesn't really matter that much

u guys can still keep in touch via email
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by skaterGuy15 » Wed Feb 12, 2003 7:03 pm

meh, via email my ass...sorry but i've had an online relationship and pretty soon the words on the screen just drove me MADDDD! Paul is like the Cassanova of the boards! Sheesh! I hope you and Jess work out groovy in the end!
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Post by iHEAVENn » Wed Feb 12, 2003 7:17 pm

if you like someone distance shouldnt matter. you cant control who you like and who you dont like. i dont see why you want to stop your feelings. you really cant stop them, their allways going to be there even if you think their not they are. just let what ever happens happen. :)
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by frost » Wed Feb 12, 2003 7:47 pm

Originally posted by love_in_a_box@Feb 12 2003, 11:03 PM

meh, via email my ass...sorry but i've had an online relationship and pretty soon the words on the screen just drove me MADDDD!


it depends on the person ^^;;;;

for me i'm fine w/ words

don't mind reading
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Post by spatulaoflove » Wed Feb 12, 2003 7:52 pm

online relationships are fun, but i think that u need like a guy that looks somewhat like him that u can screw around with....a realy stupid guy lol ....like a cllone!
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by Sky » Wed Feb 12, 2003 7:59 pm

think of the disadvanteges

a) u dunno if he even is the guy he says he is ex) he could be a raping 46 yr old

b ) if u live 10 hrs away it will NEVER work out

c) uuuggg can i say more....
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by Sk8r_4_LiFe » Wed Feb 12, 2003 8:00 pm

i wish i had a clone like a minie-me



oops a lil off topic

i dont like online dating especially those that lead to meeting in person

because when they meet me in person, im not the guy they dreamed i would be, im much worse :(
Me: So do you like, HIM?

Rosca: No way, they suck. . .

Me: How can you say that, they're love METAL

Rosca: They ain't Metal!

Me: Well they probably get more women than we will ever in our lives combined

Rosca: Yea cause they're gay. . .

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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by iHEAVENn » Wed Feb 12, 2003 8:12 pm

Originally posted by Sk8r_4_LiFe@Feb 12 2003, 04:00 PM

i wish i had a clone like a minie-me



oops a lil off topic

i dont like online dating especially those that lead to meeting in person

because when they meet me in person, im not the guy they dreamed i would be, im much worse :(


aww poor sk8r dont worry youll find the right girl sooner or later just keep trying :)
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by RainDrops » Wed Feb 12, 2003 8:46 pm

online never works...



but for sk8er hey you might wanna go for it! :D :rolleyes:
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Post by Sk8r_4_LiFe » Wed Feb 12, 2003 9:05 pm

Me: So do you like, HIM?

Rosca: No way, they suck. . .

Me: How can you say that, they're love METAL

Rosca: They ain't Metal!

Me: Well they probably get more women than we will ever in our lives combined

Rosca: Yea cause they're gay. . .

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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by RainDrops » Wed Feb 12, 2003 10:37 pm

:P THANKS! :rolleyes:
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by packzz » Thu Feb 13, 2003 12:48 am

I've pretty much voiced my opinions on online relationships when I wrote this article:



http://www.teenhelp.org/cgi-bin/th.cgi?art...les:mike_online



I wouldn't get involved in one anymore. Hurts too much, geez, I have a hard time keeping local relationships going properly.
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by iHEAVENn » Thu Feb 13, 2003 4:33 am

online relationships can work if both of the people are makeing it work. :) its as easy as that.
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Re: Falling For An Online Guy

Post by NunchakuSteve » Thu Feb 13, 2003 6:52 am

Online's not a great way to go...but if you do.., I guess go for it. You can always meet them but if you don't want to like them more(online) stop going online or talkingto that person. Kinda mean, but u can always just stay as friends and forget teh crush thing :P

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