How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

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How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by OutCast » Thu Feb 13, 2003 9:39 am

I like this girl and i think she likes me too :wub: , but we are both really shy :ph34r: . How can i tell if she is flirting with me(she's not an open flirter or i wouldn't be asking)???
I lost my gf to a guy who lives 20 000 miles away and wont see her for at least 3 years. imagine how depressed i am.

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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by iHEAVENn » Thu Feb 13, 2003 11:40 am

seberal people have different ways of flirting. some people give lil looks at the person they like. others allways seem to try and be around the person they like. the bump into the person. since shes shy, it may be hard to tell if shes flirting with you or not. you may want to ask someone around you if they think shes flirting because they can see what shes doing, :)
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by OutCast » Thu Feb 13, 2003 12:47 pm

Thanks i'll try that
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by OutCast » Thu Feb 13, 2003 1:51 pm

ya she kinda dose that(wasn't really looking) but she giggles alot and she makes jokes like "so what are you getting me for valentines day"
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by She » Thu Feb 13, 2003 5:05 pm

If you suspect it, go for it! Particularly with the shy ones ;)



The eye contact thing is a big give-away in my experience. You look at them, then they look up at you and you make eye contact, then they look away quickly, and the process is repeated.. hehe.



I say give it a shot. Give her some chocolate or flowers for Valentine's day, or just a note or something. Or call. Since she's jokingly been asking you what you're going to get her, you can always get her something to return that joke that can also have a double meaning.. you know. So you're even safe if she DOESN'T like you (though it sounds like she does). Good luck! :)
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by Sk8r_4_LiFe » Thu Feb 13, 2003 5:23 pm

any sexual joke or joke that kinda poses that u guys are going out is a major flirting item

shes totally flirting with u

go for it!
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by OutCast » Thu Feb 13, 2003 6:52 pm

Ya i'm gonna go for it! i hope it works. i got her a pink porcelin rose for v-day :wub: and i sent her a card and stuff
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Post by iHEAVENn » Thu Feb 13, 2003 6:56 pm

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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by RainDrops » Thu Feb 13, 2003 9:25 pm

definatly! go for it! It should be good...they shy ones are commited...trust me!





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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by MiKeYo » Fri Feb 14, 2003 5:30 am

Originally posted by She@Feb 13 2003, 09:05 PM

If you suspect it, go for it! Particularly with the shy ones ;)



The eye contact thing is a big give-away in my experience. You look at them, then they look up at you and you make eye contact, then they look away quickly, and the process is repeated.. hehe.



I say give it a shot. Give her some chocolate or flowers for Valentine's day, or just a note or something. Or call. Since she's jokingly been asking you what you're going to get her, you can always get her something to return that joke that can also have a double meaning.. you know. So you're even safe if she DOESN'T like you (though it sounds like she does). Good luck! :)


i know some girls who just like to stare at guys just to give them the wrong impression....gee i hate girls who give wrong signals!!!!!!!!!1 :angry:
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by NunchakuSteve » Fri Feb 14, 2003 10:33 am

Touching, her making u touch her,suggestivejokes, or any refereance to going out is mondo flirting...do it up man.

you can do it!

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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by NunchakuSteve » Fri Feb 14, 2003 10:34 am

oh yes...the shy ones...they are comitting :)

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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by She » Fri Feb 14, 2003 6:13 pm

Tell us how it goooes! :)
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by OutCast » Fri Feb 14, 2003 8:03 pm

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR :angry:! She likes me but i sent her this rose dealy in class and then all the other girls were like "Your so Cute to do that" and now she's not liking me much! Why dose it have to be so complicated? :angry: :angry:
I lost my gf to a guy who lives 20 000 miles away and wont see her for at least 3 years. imagine how depressed i am.

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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by sexyheather » Fri Feb 14, 2003 8:08 pm

try flirting with her a little bit and see if she flirts back.
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by OutCast » Fri Feb 14, 2003 8:11 pm

Flirt??? i'm kinda shy and don't do that. i usually just ask straight out if they wanna go out
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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by Kristina » Fri Feb 14, 2003 8:21 pm

people flirt in different ways....

maybe when you think she doesnt like you shes actually flirting with ya, you never know
There's always someone cooler than you

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Re: How Can I Tell If She Is Flirting?

Post by OutCast » Fri Feb 14, 2003 8:23 pm

maybe... still ticks me off though
I lost my gf to a guy who lives 20 000 miles away and wont see her for at least 3 years. imagine how depressed i am.

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