Where Do I Go From Here

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Where Do I Go From Here

Post by SVTcobraR87 » Thu Feb 13, 2003 7:31 pm

for those of you how read my first post you know me and my girlfriend are having problems . . .well we've been fighting constantly and ive finally started to move on . . .i decided to tell one of my close friend how i felt about her . . .and it turns out she feels the same way . . .bu theres one problem . .how do i get rid of my girlfriend without totally pissing her off . .shes still a good freind to have and i dont want to competely lose her . . . but im not quite sure how to go about doing it . . .any suggestions will be great .. Thanks
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Post by iHEAVENn » Thu Feb 13, 2003 7:37 pm

sit your girlfriend down, and explain to her things arent going that great and you both know it. explain to her how you feel about everything, dont leave anything out. then tell her calmly you think it would be best if you broke up and stayed friends because if the relationship went anyfarther your afraid of totaly loseing her friendship. :) hope that helps
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Post by Sk8r_4_LiFe » Thu Feb 13, 2003 7:52 pm

all i can say is follow barelyhangingon's advice thats what i would say



but there is still the small chance she might flip and u cant stop that from happening. Hopefully ull come to an agreement
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Post by MiKeYo » Fri Feb 14, 2003 6:09 am

you gotta do what you gotta do....what matters is what YOU want.....not her. even if it does come out harsh...some things just cant be avoided...so dont worry to much about it...but try to let it out nicely
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Post by NunchakuSteve » Fri Feb 14, 2003 10:24 am

I'm with MikeYo in this one

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Post by She » Fri Feb 14, 2003 6:11 pm

Relationships rarely have a smooth transition from romance to friendship, unfortunately. And friendships with exes period can be very weird, but I say go for it: let your girlfriend know you don't think things are going well and you don't want to lose her friendship (as BHO said). Hopefully that'll clear things up, and she won't take it too hard because she probably has noticed the same happening. Good luck!
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