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Post by daloverlyme » Fri Dec 20, 2002 11:43 am

(woot!) omg i started dating a teacher recently, is that a big deal? hes sooooooooo nice. If the school boared finds out he can be in trouble tho i hear. Anyways i really do love him. hes in his 30s (im 17). Its easy to get extra credit when i need it tho, i can big time extra credit by.....anyways.




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Post by xxwhereisfredxx » Fri Dec 20, 2002 11:53 am

i guess thats good....but going out with a teacher?? that would just be too weird for me......! hope it works out though....
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Post by daloverlyme » Fri Dec 20, 2002 12:16 pm

hes my health teacher, He said no one will find out and he really loves me. He wants me to move in with him soon so i dont have to live where im living now. His parents are dead. Ive never seen the movie loser. I think this is the man i could marry.




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Post by Trivialnight » Fri Dec 20, 2002 12:27 pm

This is kind of goes to my theory about love a few posts down, but anyways what do i know
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Post by daloverlyme » Fri Dec 20, 2002 12:32 pm

why would he murder me?? The movie isnt even about a true storie so why watch it? Hes like a teenager himself when it comes to dances, he chaparones school event allllllllllll the time. Why isnt it safe?




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Post by CuteLilChk » Fri Dec 20, 2002 1:32 pm

i hope everything works out, but be careful. you are almost out of school, and then you can make it public, but until then, be really really careful or you could ruin it forever. and make sure he isn't just using you. that situation happens a lot with older guys and younger girls. careful and good luck!



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Post by raine » Fri Dec 20, 2002 1:35 pm

Wait a few more months, until you turn eighteen at least, to say anything. It will be easier that way.
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Post by daloverlyme » Fri Dec 20, 2002 3:39 pm

what would he be using me for???? nothing, thats what. After cristmas Break if i can il be moving in with him. So people will probably find out soon about us and it doesnt bother either of us. He respects me for me and he absolutly loves kids so im not worried about that one bit. i dont see why he would get fired from his anways because of us.




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My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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Post by HumanNature » Fri Dec 20, 2002 3:51 pm

If he loves you he'd wait to your of legal age to date him... (which is 18) also... because he's a person of authority he can and most likely WILL be fired from his job.... it's against the law (and common knowledge so he knows this already) for a teacher to date a student... you're probably graduating soon anyways... so if you guys really want to be together you'll BOTH be willing to wait....

if he really loves you, he'd wait untill you're of a more reasonable age..

if you really love him, you wouldn't put him in the risk you're putting him in....

also, because you're not 18 yet (depending on where you live) if your parents find out, they can press charges against him.... if you have ANY type of physical relationship with him (sexual intercorse, oral sex... ext), he can be charged with statitory rape........

look into the age laws for where you live..... if you really love each other.... it'll work out.... but also, you wouldn't put someone you love in such a risk would you???

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Post by She » Fri Dec 20, 2002 4:48 pm

Originally posted by daloverlyme@Dec 20 2002, 07:39 PM

what would he be using me for????


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Post by daloverlyme » Fri Dec 20, 2002 5:06 pm

not if i dont have sex with him, he cant use me for that.




*********************THE <span style="color:red"LOVES
OF MY LIFE!!!!!********************



My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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Post by daloverlyme » Fri Dec 20, 2002 7:20 pm

i was joking about needing extra credit or anything. ive always gotten As in health, even with different teachers. They would have to prove we are having sex before they can truly fire him im sure. theres no favortism thats gonna happen eitther.




*********************THE <span style="color:red"LOVES
OF MY LIFE!!!!!********************



My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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Post by oneforthemoney » Fri Dec 20, 2002 7:59 pm

I agree with Human Nature...

You should just be careful and not rush into everything....if you do "love" each other, maybe you should wait until you're 18 to maybe move in with him. You're still 17 - at the this age...(i'm 17) feelings, change SOOOO much.



K, so he's a teacher...mmm, I say it again...JUST BE CAREFUL.

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Post by daloverlyme » Fri Dec 20, 2002 9:45 pm

well im not going to wait untill im 18, we love eachother now. You dont choose when the time to fall in love is best. We are going to continue the relationship. We talked this over today and not going to let no one stop us from being in love. Im not sure why the courts would think its a high licklhood that we would sleep together. I might spend the night with him tonight because for the short time weve been apart i miss him. NoThInG sexual is going to happen tho!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




*********************THE <span style="color:red"LOVES
OF MY LIFE!!!!!********************



My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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Post by Dino » Sat Dec 21, 2002 8:46 am

If its against the law... then its a big deal.

I can see that nothing now can persuade you... so Im not going to type all these things that I wanted to...

Just be very very careful... It just doesnt sound stable and safe...

I agree with what other ppl said.
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Post by daloverlyme » Sat Dec 21, 2002 11:00 am

i really thought about it again dismorning and i might end it, i dont want to hurt him. i do love him but ive been hurt to many times and plus i dont want to be blamed for the "cutist" teacher being fired. Last night i spent the night over at his house and he..................... anyways im not sure yet if to end it. :huh:




*********************THE <span style="color:red"LOVES
OF MY LIFE!!!!!********************



My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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Post by daloverlyme » Thu Dec 26, 2002 11:13 pm

he asked me to marry him (woot!) . OMG i cant believe this, i do love him but i didnt think he was this serious, well i know where serious (zips lips) but marrying him?. he told me hes willing to lose his job for me and kate, hes like the perfect man to be my husband i think but i dont know.




*********************THE <span style="color:red"LOVES
OF MY LIFE!!!!!********************



My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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Post by daloverlyme » Sat Dec 28, 2002 12:42 am

i dont see why its against the law honestly. if i want to date him its my buisness as long as i earn my grades and have proof of earning my grades like i do. if i want to continue having sex with him than i will, its not their buisness. opps shared to much info, lol anyways.




*********************THE <span style="color:red"LOVES
OF MY LIFE!!!!!********************



My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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Post by She » Sat Dec 28, 2002 12:45 am

I hope for your sake he's not using you, dear. But I trust you're using your judgement. :)
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: a time to be born and a time to die, time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace."

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Post by daloverlyme » Sat Dec 28, 2002 9:46 am

kate is my lil girl, shes 5




*********************THE <span style="color:red"LOVES
OF MY LIFE!!!!!********************



My daughter Kate was born June 16th 1997



My son Timmy (Timmers) was born Aug 1st 2004



I had my daughter Aiyana Moon Love on July 1st 2005.



AshLynn was born Jan. 28th 2007.



I Married to Chandler William. Friday March 20th 2004

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