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love dad, cant stand mom

Post by sexyheather » Sat Dec 21, 2002 2:55 pm

my mom is a Bible beater and i believe in God but i'm very liberal and she's EXTREMELY conservative. i live life a lot more liberally than she'd like but i'm still a good person. i don't do drugs, i'm saving my virginity, and i do my best to help people out like on this site. but my mom thinks just because i'm not obsessed with religion that i'm a failure slut. all she tells me is that im a failure, she doesnt kno wut she raised, im a piece of shit, etc. i ran away last week because i couldn't take it anymore but obviously i came back. my dad is the only one who defends me. my sister kind of does but she's afraid of my mom so she often takes her side out of fear. it's so hard living with my mom. i'm a free-spirit and an independent thinker and she HATES that. she wants me to be her psychotic Christian robot that pounds religion into every lifeform around me just like she does and she can't accept that you can be a good person without being LIKE HER. i hate this and i can't wait until i'm 18, 2 more years until i'm out of this shithole.
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Post by sexyheather » Sun Dec 22, 2002 2:06 pm

come on someone give me some words of wisdom please :'(
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Post by Sky » Mon Dec 23, 2002 1:44 am

ummm well have u said that 2 ur mom?
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Post by oneforthemoney » Mon Dec 23, 2002 3:29 am

Hey, okay, ...it's the opposite with me. My dad's the conservative ass, and my stepmom is the really down to earth cool stepmom that takes my side. Sometimes though I get really frustrated with both. My dad is religious right...but he never goes to church anymore, I don't think he ever reads the Bible and then suddenly whenever I do something wrong he goes on about how I'm suppose to be such a good Christian and then I make mistakes, when he should look at himself. One morning I went to church with a friend and then suddenly he decided to go too...I mean what does that tell ya? what an ass. Then one time I wanted to get baptized and THEN suddenly he told me no and yapped about what the Bible said - yeah like baptizing is wrong?

Anyway, so I choose to be religious and like you I don't drink, and I'm saving myself. My real mom called me a slut too...called me an alcoholic and bull like that. Ya know what I've learnt....not only that parents are assholes, but that they can't choose to accept their kids for who they are and whenever you ARE who you ARE and you're being yourself, they think they've raised you the wrong way or they feel sorry for themselves and call themselves bad parents. Tell your mom what you choose for your life...I told them what I want with mine, and they didn't really have any thing to say or do about it. My dad on the other hand doesn't even want me to have ANY kind of a opinion of my own and he never listens to what I say.......the other night he said "well I don't even know you" so I sarcastically said " Hi, I'm your daughter, remember me?" and he blames me for miscommunicating....pffft, ....tell your parents to their faces, and if they say you're overreacting, say that this is the way you express your feelings, and as a person you have the right to choose and make your own decisions and it's not up to them to decide your future.....

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Post by Barbies are Evil » Mon Dec 23, 2002 11:32 am

Originally posted by sexyheather@Dec 21 2002, 01:55 PM

my mom is a Bible beater and i believe in God but i'm very liberal and she's EXTREMELY conservative. i live life a lot more liberally than she'd like but i'm still a good person. i don't do drugs, i'm saving my virginity, and i do my best to help people out like on this site. but my mom thinks just because i'm not obsessed with religion that i'm a failure slut. all she tells me is that im a failure, she doesnt kno wut she raised, im a piece of shit, etc. i ran away last week because i couldn't take it anymore but obviously i came back. my dad is the only one who defends me. my sister kind of does but she's afraid of my mom so she often takes her side out of fear. it's so hard living with my mom. i'm a free-spirit and an independent thinker and she HATES that. she wants me to be her psychotic Christian robot that pounds religion into every lifeform around me just like she does and she can't accept that you can be a good person without being LIKE HER. i hate this and i can't wait until i'm 18, 2 more years until i'm out of this shithole.


Just tell your dad you can't take it anymore, and have him and you figure out a way to deal with your mom.
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Post by sexyheather » Mon Dec 23, 2002 5:15 pm

Originally posted by Heart7799@Dec 23 2002, 03:32 PM

Just tell your dad you can't take it anymore, and have him and you figure out a way to deal with your mom.


hahaha... if my mom took wut my dad said seriously i would be living in heaven :D
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Post by sexyheather » Mon Dec 23, 2002 5:18 pm

Originally posted by oneforthemoney@Dec 23 2002, 07:29 AM

Hey, okay, ...it's the opposite with me. My dad's the conservative ass, and my stepmom is the really down to earth cool stepmom that takes my side. Sometimes though I get really frustrated with both. My dad is religious right...but he never goes to church anymore, I don't think he ever reads the Bible and then suddenly whenever I do something wrong he goes on about how I'm suppose to be such a good Christian and then I make mistakes, when he should look at himself. One morning I went to church with a friend and then suddenly he decided to go too...I mean what does that tell ya? what an ass. Then one time I wanted to get baptized and THEN suddenly he told me no and yapped about what the Bible said - yeah like baptizing is wrong?

Anyway, so I choose to be religious and like you I don't drink, and I'm saving myself. My real mom called me a slut too...called me an alcoholic and bull like that. Ya know what I've learnt....not only that parents are assholes, but that they can't choose to accept their kids for who they are and whenever you ARE who you ARE and you're being yourself, they think they've raised you the wrong way or they feel sorry for themselves and call themselves bad parents. Tell your mom what you choose for your life...I told them what I want with mine, and they didn't really have any thing to say or do about it. My dad on the other hand doesn't even want me to have ANY kind of a opinion of my own and he never listens to what I say.......the other night he said "well I don't even know you" so I sarcastically said " Hi, I'm your daughter, remember me?" and he blames me for miscommunicating....pffft, ....tell your parents to their faces, and if they say you're overreacting, say that this is the way you express your feelings, and as a person you have the right to choose and make your own decisions and it's not up to them to decide your future.....


thanks for the response, i don't feel so alone now! a real shocker happened, my mom apologized to me! it was crazy... that like.. is unheard of in situations like this! i give credit to my mom's friend who i had talk to her and she totally backed me up and told my mom off. i think that hit my mom between the eyes. at this moment her and i are laughing about some joke and i kno this isn't gonna last becuz we'll never be able to understand each other but at least for the moment things are ok. ;)
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Post by Barbies are Evil » Mon Dec 23, 2002 5:19 pm

Originally posted by sexyheather+Dec 23 2002, 04:15 PM--<div class='quotetop'QUOTE(sexyheather @ Dec 23 2002, 04:15 PM)
<!--QuoteBegin-Heart7799@Dec 23 2002, 03:32 PM

Just tell your dad you can't take it anymore, and have him and you figure out a way to deal with your mom.


hahaha... if my mom took wut my dad said seriously i would be living in heaven :D[/b]


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Post by sexyheather » Tue Dec 24, 2002 4:26 pm

hehehe thanks for trying :P and my mom and i got in another huge fight yesterday (i knew it wouldn't last!) but luckily i won that fight!
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Post by raine » Tue Dec 24, 2002 5:12 pm

Kudos to you, I know I could never live with that.



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Post by sexyheather » Thu Dec 26, 2002 12:43 am

Originally posted by raine@Dec 24 2002, 09:12 PM

Kudos to you, I know I could never live with that.



Imagine trying to tell your mom you were a Pagan. Lol.


she thinks i am! well she's not dead set in that notion, but she's paranoid that i don't believe in God enough.
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Post by oneforthemoney » Thu Dec 26, 2002 2:37 am

wow, your mom apologized eh? Okay - the day my dad apologises to me would be the day I jump of a bridge laughing at him....he never apologises for nothing!!!



I remember as a child, he gave me a hiding ,and he use to beat the shit out of me (not in a bad way, i was never abused) and one day when he hit me , I was crying and he apologised for hurting me....That was the ONLY time. <_<

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Post by Kristina » Sun Dec 29, 2002 1:34 pm

haha aw
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Post by Ciara » Sun Dec 29, 2002 6:00 pm

my dad is the same way oneforthemoney....so i can understand what both you and Heather are going through! Only my dad isn't a bible biter...he just doesnt give me a chance to live my life...or so it feels like sometimes...and i am 18!! GRRRRR lol

anyways Heather I have found that the best option for me is just to steer clear of my dad as much as possible...if i really want something i go to my mom...lol..
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Post by Kristina » Sun Dec 29, 2002 9:43 pm

ah parents are retarted
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Post by Kristina » Tue Dec 31, 2002 11:02 am

parents seem to fuck alot of this up idk they are so annyoing i just try to ignore them
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