Confused, Scared, And Needing Of Assistance

[lyn4sho]

I've found myself to think about girls occasionally, but have always tried to surpress it, to ignore it, all of that, because I figured it can't be me, it just can't. I'm that good little catholic girl who can't stand being looked down on.....



I've found I can't surpress it anymore, I can't help but to think about the fact, and that scares me.



Now don't get me wrong, I have no problem with homo- or bi-sexual people, I have many people close to me that are that way, and it never bothered me, I just never thought about the possiblity that it can't be me.



Now I know I'm not a lesbian, I love my boyfriend dearly and I can't live without him, we are planning to get married in 2008 (hopefully) and everything, but I would like to be postive of my sexuality before I make that step, because I want him to know too before that commitment.



So how do I figure this out, I am so confused.....anyone who can be of help, please, I'm begging you, please help me.......

[Paris In Flames]

...You have sex with a girl?

[lyn4sho]

*looks confused* no, did I somehow hint that????????

[Kit]

That's not what Jenna ment.



She ment have sex with a girl to find out if you're bisexual( I think ). I wouldn't go that far but I would say to experiment first.



Kit

[SirPostAlot]

well its fact that the more you try to suppress something, the more you think of it (like when you try to walk quietly, you usually walk more loud)...

so maybe thats the reason that the thoughts are more often in your head, is because by thinking of trying to not think of it, you are actually thinking about it - haha, you know?



hm...but yeah i think having sex is huge father...haha...but yeah i would say just maybe see where it flows - just start from thebeginning and see where things go...



~Jeff~

[Stuck911]

you can try doing things with a girl.