Bi or not???

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Bi or not???

Post by Breathe_In_For_Luck7 » Mon Dec 16, 2002 6:32 pm

My best friend told me she was bi. I told her sometimes I am attracted to girls, too. I don't know if I am bi or not cause I don't know if I would date a girl. I'm confused. But then again I am also attracted to my best friend

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Post by Skye » Mon Dec 16, 2002 7:11 pm

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Post by oneforthemoney » Mon Dec 16, 2002 7:30 pm

Ya know it's hard trying to get over someone...I probably won't be able to get over my best friend...I love her so much :unsure:

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Post by Britt » Tue Dec 17, 2002 12:41 am

dude, i just told my best friend that i am bi today and it turned out she is also bi and she likes me a lot just like i like her a lot, well im actually inlove with her, but i didn't tell her that. a little to soon. and we are like totally awesome now and we talked for 2 hours about it all on the phone, i had already writtin her a 5 page note, but yeah, there was more to be said. but yeah, and she totally feels the same as me and like me and her had already had a lot in common, but now we have even more, so like if you really like your best bud, then i say go for it!!


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Post by Dino » Tue Dec 17, 2002 6:28 am

Time. Wait and you'll know. Its a natural feeling, once you know, you know and you will not doubt on your sexuality anymore. I struggled with mine for nearly a whole year, and some ppl even longer. Do not be fustrated nor confused. This is only a small part of your life. Bi or no, it does not change who you are. Plain thinking about it all day (like what I did) will not help, it'll only make it more painful (so dont think!). Just know that bi or straight, theres nothing specail about it.



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Re: Bi or not???

Post by Breathe_In_For_Luck7 » Tue Dec 17, 2002 6:28 pm

My best friend and I both told eachother that we were attracted to eachother. But we both agreed it would be weird if we dated. but I want to know what it's like to kiss her...

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Post by Dino » Wed Dec 18, 2002 12:54 am

Maybe both of you just need more time to sort things out... ah... Im jealous... <_< !!
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Post by Barbies are Evil » Wed Dec 18, 2002 5:04 pm

TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







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Re: Bi or not???

Post by Dino » Thu Dec 19, 2002 6:52 am

Uh... Did I say anything that Im not supposed to say?? :unsure: If yes, then sorry then...

Your post just made me think about a girl I met this summer...
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Re: Bi or not???

Post by Sky » Wed Mar 05, 2003 5:33 pm

well .... first of all many straight girls go through a phase when they are attracted to male and female... but usually in the end they are straight some end up bi-sexual but folllow your heart!
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It was tine to go

Through the fields lay golden

Something wispered- "SNOW"

Leaves were green and stirring

Berries,luster-glossed

But beneath the warm feathers

Something cautioned- "FROST"

All the sagging orchards

Steamed With amber spice

But each wild breast stiffened

At rembered ice

Something told the wild geese

It was time to fly-

Summer sun was on their wings

Winter in their cry

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Re: Bi or not???

Post by Minx » Wed Mar 05, 2003 6:12 pm

yup im just like you...i like girls and guys but i dont know if i cna be in a relationship with a girl right now.....just tell her you wanna try being with ehr...and if shes not okay with it just give it all time and if she is good for you...anyways best of luck :unsure:
Dose it honestly really matter? think about it

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