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I Might Be In Deep Trouble

Post by sunny53 » Fri Jan 24, 2003 11:06 pm

my parents just found out that I had sex. I am only 16, and they are very upset. I was in my room and my mother walked in and saw me with my bf in bed doing it. My parents are not pleased and im not sure how to get out of this. We also had unprotected sex, and I might be pregnant...im not sure though. Besides, we used no condoms or anything, and it was our first time. I am very scared and think something bad might happen.

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Post by Skye » Sat Jan 25, 2003 12:53 am

OMG, I cant imagine what that is like...unfortunately you should get tested soon, even if he didn't ejeculate, you can still become pregnate by precum.
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Post by Queergrrl » Sat Jan 25, 2003 1:30 pm

Pre-Cum happens before ejaculation.

Most guys have precum which is a little drop that will come out when they get aroused. It could contain sperm. It is likely you are not pregnant but I would get a test. Anything is possible.

And Sorry about the parents finding out. That sucks. Hope everything blows over well...

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Post by WalmRtJunkie » Sun Jan 26, 2003 8:01 pm

If you're not mature enough to use protection then I can see why your parents don't think you should be having sex yet. If you and your partner love each other enough to have sex, then you should care about each other enough to get tested and use protection. If you really are doing it for all the right reasons though (being in love, etc.), then talk to your parents about it. Tell them that you really believe you are ready to be sexually active, and even ask them any questions you might have. They'll feel better after talking about it, and they'll trust you more if they know that you're asking them the answers to the questions you don't know instead of just figuring it out the hard way. Also, nothing says responsibility to a parent like using protection. Just remember that you know your body and emotions better than anyone else. Good luck!
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Post by Sky » Sun Jan 26, 2003 10:26 pm

OMG how fucking embarrasing.... but hell u should of used a condom did u want 2 get preggo or somthing??? That is just the prescription for making babies....
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Post by xXpainXinfinityXx » Mon Jan 27, 2003 1:15 am

lol



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Post by Skye » Mon Jan 27, 2003 6:57 pm

Originally posted by Unforgiving Soul@Jan 26 2003, 07:32 PM

Ive had simular circumstances, never that embarressing though, close but not quite. I love a messy room with big sheets and lots of pillows. .< hides girls easily ya know? LOL


Laugh now...thats in no way helping this poor person. :(
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Post by metzgerslady » Wed Jan 29, 2003 3:03 pm

Well, similar situation here, my mom overheard me telling my best friend all the details of me and my guy having sex.. And we didn't use protection, but she doesn't know that, she never asked. But like walmartjunkie said, talk to them. Of course they are going to be hell of upset, but it was a mistake you made, and believe me, they'll move on. They will never look at you in the same way anymore, but that comes as a consequences for the choices you made. Maybe they will respect you more if you are upfront and honest. I don't know if they are willing to talk if this was too recent, but try.. They don't want to accept it, trust me, my mom still hasn't and it's been like a month. But she will not mention that much, and it will kind of be a mute point. But whatever happens, whether you 2 talk or not, I hope it goes well.. And if you decide to keep having sex, heres a couple more pieces of advice: protect yourself and never have sex in the same house as your parents.. Never.. you WILL get caught..
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