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Post by Kristina » Sat Jan 25, 2003 9:18 pm

OKay last night i went to this wild party..... and it started out as just us like 7 frosh girls.... then juniors and seniors started showing up.... there must've been like 7 guys to one girl.... so it was fine but there was a wholllle lotta beer there... people were bringing in huge 24 packs of beer... so i started drinking.... mustve been like 15 beers i had all together.... and like 3 shots of vodka.... so i was totally piss drunk and my ex boyfriend comes in.... he was like wanna have sex and i was like um sure bc i was sooo drunk.... and so ya know it happened and now i totally regret it bc i wouldnt have done it if i wasnt drunk and i jsut think it was so wrong of him to do that bc he knew i was drunk.....

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o well life goes on but yea atleast we used a condom! <_<
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Post by DreamPixie » Sat Jan 25, 2003 9:54 pm

It's a good thing that u were coherent enough to use a condom. Next time you go to a party, even tho u're a frosh and not around the time to have a designated driver, designate someone to stay sober anyway. Have a buddy system. If you get drunk, your sober buddy can watch out for you so stuff like that doesn't happen.
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Post by Sky » Sat Jan 25, 2003 10:22 pm

thats good that u used a condom.... I mean sooo i guess ur not preg..... i had a wild party myself this weekend... lol <_< It was like 6 guys 4 girls and dry sex ... uummm yeah
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Post by She » Sun Jan 26, 2003 12:23 am

A good way to avoid this is to not hang around when there are a bunch of juniors and seniors crashing a freshman girls' party. They're just taking advantage of you, and it worked. Good you used a condom, at least. Hopefully next time you're in a situation like this you'll know better than to get drunk past the point of coherency.
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Post by WalmRtJunkie » Sun Jan 26, 2003 6:29 am

You can't take back your experience, but at least you learned from it. Alcohol can severely hinder someone's ability to make wise choices, so take that into consideration the next time you're thinking about drinking and look back on to this experience. It's normal to feel guilt or regret after these types of things, but just remember that he is at just as much fault as you are.
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Post by Sk8r_4_LiFe » Sun Jan 26, 2003 1:32 pm

i wish i had parties of 6 girls and 4 guys dry sex

but what ur ex-boyfriend did was wrong, if i was there i woulda took u home right away, so stuff like that wouldnt happen
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Post by frost » Sun Jan 26, 2003 1:42 pm

yup i agree

alcohol can really screw up a person's ability to think...

sigh what's done is done

maybe next time u can drink less ^^;
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Post by Kristina » Sun Jan 26, 2003 5:59 pm

wow.... you guys are awesome for replying... and helen ahhhh i never thought of that i hope he actually used a condom.... and yea i dont normally dirnk i just decided too haha for some reason! bad decisiion! and thanks for the advice everyone yall are awesome :rolleyes: atleast i know im not pregnant!
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Post by Ciara » Sun Jan 26, 2003 6:11 pm

i had the same experience aegirlie...and we all regret it, but there's not much we can do about it unfortunately...just give it some time and you will get over it at least a little
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Post by Kristina » Sun Jan 26, 2003 6:30 pm

yea ill get over it.... im very easy going lol i dont keeep grudges even though i probably should but im an idiot! hahah but yea its impossible for me to get pregnant so i dont gotta worry bout that
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Post by Kristina » Sun Jan 26, 2003 6:34 pm

its impossible if you dont have your ya know monthly thing yet.... but yea idk
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Post by Kristina » Sun Jan 26, 2003 7:15 pm

ahhh that sucks.... but yea good idea
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Post by She » Sun Jan 26, 2003 11:11 pm

But if your period starts, then the lining for the egg is deteriorating and you'll just menstruate out the little zygote, won't you?
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Re: Party Sex

Post by Britt » Mon Jan 27, 2003 1:21 am

aww...i read the title party sex and i thought it was gona be about some sorda massive orgy or somethin..gave up my hopes


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Post by spatulaoflove » Mon Jan 27, 2003 1:28 am

lol thats what i thought too, and also you can get pregnant with out having ur period, and jw did u ever have ur period or did it just stop because of ur ED thing?
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Post by Kristina » Mon Jan 27, 2003 1:48 pm

no i had it like last year teal
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Post by WalmRtJunkie » Wed Feb 05, 2003 4:41 am

Originally posted by aegirlie3640@Jan 26 2003, 10:34 PM

its impossible if you dont have your ya know monthly thing yet.... but yea idk


Actually... it is possible. You could be just days away from your first mentruation and not even know it yet. It's not like you can predict your first period. Anyways, your ovaries are producing the eggs weeks before your actual bloodflow starts. Therefore... you could get pregnant if you have sex a few days or even a few weeks right before you start your first period.
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Post by Kristina » Wed Feb 05, 2003 6:06 pm

hey krystena..... i like how you spell your name.... my name is christina too! lol
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Post by Kristina » Wed Feb 05, 2003 8:34 pm

yea i did learn my lesson <_< Ahh i know im not pregnant... i checked.... so its all goood :D
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Post by Bleeding~Hero » Wed Feb 05, 2003 10:25 pm

that is realy sad that he took advantage of you like that. I mean you were drunk! your wild and dancing and shaken it.... And he just comes in there, and f*cks you like you were a s**t or some thing. (no offense)

i would never do that, as a decent guy, i would never do that.

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