Crush Leading To True Love?

Have a major crush on that special girl but she doesn't like you in the least? Are you in love with a guy who doesn't even notice you? Whatever it might be, ask here. We'll give you some advice.

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Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by S.G.T » Sun Jan 26, 2003 8:14 am

HEllo there! Actually, I have a question....



Will crush leds people to true love?

When you like a girl, it is at first admire...then you started to know her and then true love might happens....



Am I right??
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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by CanadaCraig » Sun Jan 26, 2003 8:46 am

Hi S.G.T.!! :)



Sometimes - 'crushes' DO turn into 'true love' - but not very often.



'True love' takes TIME. In fact - most people don't experience 'true love' until years AFTER they are married. [or have been together for a very long time]



It's easy to love someone when both of you are all 'googly-eyed' - but 'true love' is love that is STILL there even AFTER 'things' aren't so wonderful anymore. If you still want to be with a person [and they still want to be with YOU] even after you have had a horrible fight [and have survived a lot of problems] that may indicate that both of you truly love each other.



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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by Dots » Sun Jan 26, 2003 12:54 pm

I think it can happen...



It kinda' happened with me.



All relationships start out with the 'crush' so yeah, it has to be true...



But if you mean the longtime 'schoolboy crush' its less likely, but I think it's very possible.

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Post by frost » Sun Jan 26, 2003 1:32 pm

it could happen ^^

having a crush starts a lot of relationships

it happens more often than love developed from friendships

although it's not very likely to last..

but there's always a possibility!!
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Post by S.G.T » Sun Jan 26, 2003 6:26 pm

Thanx Yah, I UnderStand :)
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Post by S.G.T » Mon Jan 27, 2003 6:34 pm

Really? blondie77!! That's pretty cool!!

Maybe I should go for it :)
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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by She » Mon Jan 27, 2003 8:33 pm

I say go for it. But don't go into it expecting true love 'cause then the first hint of some deeper feeling you're going to start thinking she's "the one" and professing your undying love. In my opinion, don't profess undying love regardless 'cause you never know what's going to happen. Anyways, yes, a crush is attraction and attraction can lead to what we think is love... come to think of it, don't almost all relationships get started that way? :)
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Post by S.G.T » Wed Jan 29, 2003 6:29 pm

Thanx She, I understand...

Gd luck to you!!
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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by iHEAVENn » Wed Jan 29, 2003 7:37 pm

i say go for it. true love can happen any time at any age but when your with the person your think u love or u know u love let em know exactly how you feel about them before their gone or ur gone itll be rocky somedays but then no ones perfect and then youll allways have those totally great days that youll wish could go on forever 'that made no sense' :) well any ways good luck and i say go for it :D
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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by S.G.T » Thu Jan 30, 2003 9:16 am

Hey everyone...I really appreciate your reply!! Yah It's kinda cool...hehe

But how should I tell the girl I liked her...

Any Tips??
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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by She » Thu Jan 30, 2003 5:16 pm

Give her flowers. Or food. Or show up at her front door with flowers and/or food (only if you can drive). Orrr... hm. Definitely in person though. Good luck! :)
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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by iHEAVENn » Thu Jan 30, 2003 5:52 pm

:) lol i agree with she, give her flowers or candy yummiiiiiii lol or write it on a letter and give her it at skool muhahaha best of luck to u :) i hope u get her ;)
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Re: Crush Leading To True Love?

Post by S.G.T » Thu Jan 30, 2003 6:25 pm

Laught Out Loud :0

Thanx, anywhere
If you like someone, you should tell him/her.

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