Bf Is A Jerk

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Bf Is A Jerk

Post by ladytigress » Sat Feb 01, 2003 2:42 pm

my bf has been acting weird he'll say ill call u back and never do, i alwayz end up callin him back. he claims hes busy which i dont think he is, he gets mad when my line is busy i said now u know how it feels. i feel like hes ignoring me, he didnt call me back last nite. now hes barely sayin i luv u to me, plus he said this is a "serious relationship" and he said ill make it work. he wanted me to move in w/him now i dont know whats ur advice?

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Post by She » Sat Feb 01, 2003 4:16 pm

He said YOU'LL make it work?



Has he been informed that there are TWO parties in a relationship, and both need to work to make it work? If he's not willing to work for you, dump his lazy ass. He IS a jerk. Tell him, and if he still won't do anything, you deserve much better.



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Post by Cindy » Sat Feb 01, 2003 4:36 pm

I beleive ithis is a sign of him lossing his intrest in you. Talk to him, tell him this is a 2 person relationship, and its not just your job to make it work. DO NOT move in with him. At least till you two have a equal realationships with eachother. u move in w/ him, he's gonna use you so bad......
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Re: Bf Is A Jerk

Post by Sky » Sat Feb 01, 2003 5:54 pm

i think he isent worth it!!!

Besides he said YOU would work it out by moving in with him???? NO WAY he isent worth shit...
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Post by iHEAVENn » Sat Feb 01, 2003 6:30 pm

i agree with all of them :)

in a relationship theres 2 people not 1. both of them have to be willing to devote time toward eachother. if he says hell call you back and never does, hes probably not going to call you untill he gets bored. some guys just like knowing they can control a girl. which isnt right. as for you moving in with him, your young he isnt wasnt he like 20 or something? eh i forgot lol anyways you have your whole life ahead of you. dont waste it on someone who cant even re3turn your phone calls. i say you leave him and find someone who can treat you right. :)
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Post by ladytigress » Sat Feb 01, 2003 8:39 pm

i said HE'LL MAKE IT WORK not me...im just tired of his shit i cant believe he did this 2 me.

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Post by iHEAVENn » Sat Feb 01, 2003 9:36 pm

well, if he said hell make it work, you need to ask him how come hes not trying to make things better between you two.

and sorry bout the misunderstanding
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