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Goodbye

Post by Jake » Sun Feb 02, 2003 3:29 am

It appears to me....anyone who ever comes to teenhelp eventually leaves in flames. I'm talking about Helen......S.k.o.g......Feyr.



Be who you want to chose: almost everyone who ever wants more for this site, end up leaving it in a scandle. I guess you could say I'm no exception, because I had a three page topic on me when I tried to leave, because you all swore you would miss me. :)



*sigh* Well, I'll tell you something. This time I'm leaving and I'm telling you why....hopefully you don't get stuck in my position.



I love this site. Maybe not more than some of the people that acctually got help from it, but this site has made alot of who I am. This is why everyone who loves this site ends up leaving in a uproar. We need a reason to leave, because otherwise.....we can't swim from the sinking ship.



Teenhelp pulls us all in at one point or another. We all just need to step back once in our stay here to realize that it's just a website, and life IS more important.



I am 14 years old....not even 15 untill May, and my doctor has told me that I may not be able to use most of my upper body by the time I'm 18 if I continue to use the computer. My average uptime every day on this site is 14 hours, and I am on the brink of carpul tunnel syndrom to show for it. I've been allowing this site.....to slowly kill me of the virtues my good mother and God had once instilled in me.



So....I'm leaving. Forever. It's my choice weather it's worth it to die cripled, with all to show for my self-abuse is a beat up, and underloved site. I could chose that route, but instead: I chose LIFE. A real life....One that I could cherish with my husband, and my children and their children to come.



I more than apreciate the love and happiness that has been given without question by all of you, and I will definatly not forget you, no matter how hard I might try. This site will forever be ingraved in my mind, with it's love and help and I will be praying like crazy for everyone who helps on it.



Dustin: You've always been one of my best friends and you don't know how much I will miss your guidence and love as I go on in life. It's too bad we could never meet.



Adam: You've always rocked, even when I was acting like the newbie I am at heart. I wish you good luck in your carrear, and am happy to be able to say that I knew you....You were an awesome friend.



Purple: Live on with the guys! I hope some day, you'll be able to fix your internet connection and come on here, but whatever happens: You've been the best person for me to be able to talk, and you will truely be missed.



Heart: You're the best helper I know, and an even better person at heart....Rock on with the helping, but never let it consume you. You can go far and have helped many people......don't let anyone tell you otherwise.



Helen: As much as you did agravate me with your posts sometimes, you've really changed my life in many ways. You have opened my mind to what a true painting could be, and made me a better person with your happiness and straight forward thinking. Don't let life kill you babe. I know the site did that long ago, but you have a wonderfull mind and heart......you just need to strip yourself of the shacles you have made for yourself :)





...Nick: I am truely sorry if I ever hurt you, but know one thing about me before I leave: I would not have stayed here this long if it wern't for people like you. I never considered you a member of my staff, or even only a mentor....I considered you much more than that: a friend. I'm sorry that I have hurt you in the past, but please know that I never did so intentionally, and I'd change it in a second if I had a chance.





Every single person on this site has meant the world to me, and my life is forever changed because of your love, and constant will to give. I never changed teenhelp, it changed me, and I am truely gratefull for that.







Farewell Teenhelp-

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Re: Goodbye

Post by iHEAVENn » Sun Feb 02, 2003 4:29 am

bye jacob youll be missed :( :'(
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Post by Sky » Sun Feb 02, 2003 8:42 am

:'( Jaccob... we love u man... we are all soo deeply moved by this post, im sorry about ur illness Im so sad u had 2 leave us likes this :'( I will miss u....
<span style=\'font-family:Times\'Something told the wild geese

It was tine to go

Through the fields lay golden

Something wispered- "SNOW"

Leaves were green and stirring

Berries,luster-glossed

But beneath the warm feathers

Something cautioned- "FROST"

All the sagging orchards

Steamed With amber spice

But each wild breast stiffened

At rembered ice

Something told the wild geese

It was time to fly-

Summer sun was on their wings

Winter in their cry

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Re: Goodbye

Post by Jaegermeister » Sun Feb 02, 2003 10:19 am

Jake I'll still miss ya even if I know why you are leaving. Best of luck in life and love, and always remember to be true to yourself.



With much respect,

TJ
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Post by She » Sun Feb 02, 2003 10:50 am

Happens to all of us at some point... that's what's rough about the internet. You meet people, go places you never ever could in real life. You get to know people in the most anonymous setting and as weird as it may sound to people who don't understand, you get attached to them like no one else. So you start devoting more and more of your time to them, and to whatever it is you're doing there, and then suddenly you realize everyone around you in real life is suffering from it and you haven't been seen away from your computer for months. So you have to give it all up or risk being sucked back in. And no, I'm not just talking about Teenhelp. Happens all over the place. It's just the nature of the place I guess. But alas, es la vida.

We'll miss you and remember everything you've contributed to the site. Good luck, thank you for everything you've given us. Good luck wherever life takes you next.
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Post by Barbies are Evil » Sun Feb 02, 2003 10:56 am

Bye Jacob...........:huge hug: You will be missed, but its better your not here than eventually dead, its really sad though......
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Post by OverDrive » Sun Feb 02, 2003 12:21 pm

Sorry to see you go.



I spend about 14 hours a day on the computer or so...., and i have for the past couple of years. Its my life and I love it. It's not only my life but my career. Gladly to say, i have no carpul tunnel or even the slightest symptom.



Sorry to see you go, YOU WILL BE MISSED JAKE!
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Post by Cindy » Sun Feb 02, 2003 1:00 pm

I'm sorry to see you go jake. But i'm also glad to see your puttin gyourself before this site for once. Know the site will be tooken care of, and just don't ruin your life cause of this site. You will be missed....



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Post by forsaken_without_you » Sun Feb 02, 2003 2:02 pm

i bid thee farewell



i hope your life become a good one... just remember that you are loved... always! :'(
she said she cared...then why am I all alone..?





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Re: Goodbye

Post by jamie » Sun Feb 02, 2003 4:57 pm

Jake, you've been a great friend. You've amazed me with your positive attutide and open-mindedness too many times to count. I wish you the best of luck and you will be greatly missed.
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Post by Flowers For The Dead » Sun Feb 02, 2003 9:09 pm

later man, you were one of the greatest mods on this site. i hope you have a great life man! :upside:
Fill up the bucket with whatever ya got.

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Post by itsme » Sun Feb 02, 2003 10:38 pm

we will miss u but if ur health is in danger b/c of it then i want the best 4 ya. cya , ull b missed b all of us.
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Post by DreamPixie » Sun Feb 02, 2003 11:19 pm

:hug: good luck with life and everything that comes with it. i hope your health will improve quickly. this is obviously for the best, but you'll definitely be missed.
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Post by Dino » Mon Feb 03, 2003 1:03 am

I can understand why you leave. If you still come up here to read this post that you made (the replies) I want you to know that though you may not know this, but you means a lot to me. I'll always remember you as the first (actually the only one) person who replied my first post in TH sexuality forum. The help/advice/support that you gave me is one of the reasons why I stay in TH and guide me through some of my worse times. I agree that we need to LIVE more and hope you'll have a wonderful adventure after leaving TH!!



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Post by Evan » Mon Feb 03, 2003 1:25 am

bye jacob!, your gonna be missed. but man 14 hours a day????? thats radifying! :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: i guees it is best that you leave for your health! well, faleware , an take care
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Post by Evan » Mon Feb 03, 2003 8:42 pm

agin .............. an agin. no one reply's to me i must be really horrible
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Post by Sky » Mon Feb 03, 2003 8:51 pm

DONT GOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
<span style=\'font-family:Times\'Something told the wild geese

It was tine to go

Through the fields lay golden

Something wispered- "SNOW"

Leaves were green and stirring

Berries,luster-glossed

But beneath the warm feathers

Something cautioned- "FROST"

All the sagging orchards

Steamed With amber spice

But each wild breast stiffened

At rembered ice

Something told the wild geese

It was time to fly-

Summer sun was on their wings

Winter in their cry

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Post by PurplePoemPuppet » Tue Feb 04, 2003 4:22 am

Aww... jake... I didn't even know and I nearly fell out of my chair upon reading this. Just a complete shocker is all. You know I'll miss you and will love to keep talking with you even if it's just an email here and there or something.



And I'll always think of you when I see a guy that should be on the cover of our own cherrished porn magazine! :P



Erm... wait... I forgot... it's not porn. Anyhoo... you know I wuv ya Jake and things just won't be the same. I'll be thinking of ya!
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Re: Goodbye

Post by Nj » Tue Feb 04, 2003 7:09 am

Good luck in your new journey. Remember, always wear sunscreen. If you ever want to know who I am jake, listen to Alanis's Supposed Former Infatuation Junkie album, you'll get why I am the way I am, and for me to hold you up on a pedestal was unfair, I set myself up for hurt, its not your fault.



Much, Much love and many kuyous,



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