I just don't understand....
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- WhOaMi?
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I just don't understand....
Me and my brother have always been extremely close, I mean best friends, like do everything together, say I love you at the end of phone conversations and before one or the other leaves....and lately I have been fighting with him so much, it is this douche bag girlfriend he has...I HATE her, and I have tried to like her...but I can't.....and like he is never home anymore because he does everything with her and me and my family like her so like she is never here (ie-he is never here) and when he is all we do is fight, and I mean the only thing we do is fight, about dumb stuff, and like he is a completely different person because of her....I just don't know what to do....I feel like I am losing my brother.... And he is moving out next month, in with her and some friends, and I feel like I am about to lose him forever...
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Have you tried telling him this? Maybe you should if you haven't. Just give him time - It'll get better once the "new love" has become old and everything. Just give it time. Ask him to hang out ever once in a while. Have a family outing and invite her. Sorry - but by arguing about her with him is just going to push him away more. Sorry hun. I hope things get better for ya.
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I have tried talking to him about and I have tried to get to like her...it doesn't work, and when I ask him to hang out, he says he never has time...
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Hi WhOaMi?!!
I'm sorry to hear about that.
Your brother's focus is on the 'girlfriend'. SHE may be a part of his life forever. Or just for the next few weeks. But you and your brother will always be brother and sister. So don't allow this 'thing' your brother is going through to damage the special relationship you will always have with your brother. Be happy for him and TRY your best NOT to be jealous or envious of this new person in his life. In fact - the more supportive you are of what he choose to do with his life [And who he chooses to see] the closer he will feel to you.
I hope that helps.
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Craig!!
I'm sorry to hear about that.
Your brother's focus is on the 'girlfriend'. SHE may be a part of his life forever. Or just for the next few weeks. But you and your brother will always be brother and sister. So don't allow this 'thing' your brother is going through to damage the special relationship you will always have with your brother. Be happy for him and TRY your best NOT to be jealous or envious of this new person in his life. In fact - the more supportive you are of what he choose to do with his life [And who he chooses to see] the closer he will feel to you.
I hope that helps.
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Craig!!
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