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Is It Bad?

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i've been with my boyfriend for about 8 1/2 months. we've had sex unprotected before and whatnot. but we had sex like 3 times on last wednesday before thanksgiving. we had the usual sex, you know, missionary and 69. then the second time we were having sex he fucked me in the ass. i want to know if its bad or potentionally dangerous. i'm not sure cuz he's big and my friends say that he could have hurt me, although, he didnt enter me all the way. i'm not sure. i need help.
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Really, it's not a bad thing at all - it's fairly common and lots of people find it appealing. You're not at all strange or weird or bad. It can be enjoyable for both parties if done right. You just have to be careful; things can indeed tear.



Go slow, stretch things out beforehand, and use LOTS of lubrication; otherwise, things can get painful.
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well does your ass hurt?

that would be the biggest clue as to if it tore something or not.
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If you dont have pain and you dont see blood you are more than likely fine. been tested before though?
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