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Not His First
Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 8:59 pm
by fighter_girl
I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend. I'm his fourth. I get so depressed about it I can't concentrate. Anytime we have sex, all I can think about is him with those other girls. My friends don't seem to have problems with their boyfriends' pasts, but I can't get over it.
I'm just really upset. I don't know who to talk to.
Re: Not His First
Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:45 pm
by Lena
Hi, Welcome to HT. <img src='
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How is your relationship aside from sex? Have you talked about your feelings with your boyfriend? If, so, what does he think about it?
How are you feeling now?
Take care,
Lena
Re: Not His First
Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:13 pm
by Zelophobia
Hey there!
As much as we'd like to, we can't change our significant others' pasts. I know it sucks, but there is nothing you can do to change it. What you have to remember is that YOUR girlfriend NOW. All those other girls from his past are just that; his past. You can be his present, and his future! Communication is key, so talk to him about how you're feeling, and even talk to your friends. Maybe they can help you see that his past isn't that big of a deal!
Take care,
Shannon
