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Post by Dave_19 » Thu Dec 01, 2005 4:37 am

my gf's grandma died last night, i never met her. i actually don't even know y i'm making a thread about it.
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Post by Beautiful » Thu Dec 01, 2005 8:04 am

Aww hunny i'm sooo sorry :(.

Are you going to go to her funeral??

I never met my grandma on my dads side. :-/
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Post by Dave_19 » Thu Dec 01, 2005 2:59 pm

yeah i guess maybe idk if my gf wants me to
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Post by sbloemeke » Thu Dec 01, 2005 5:01 pm

You want to help your girlfriend through this time, so you are posting for help to help her, maybe? I don't know. However, I think you should go to the funeral. It is supportive of your girlfriend, and will help your relationship with her.

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Post by Lena » Thu Dec 01, 2005 6:07 pm

Death affects us in all sorts of ways - it doesn't matter if you didn't know the person who died. If you need support, for whatever reason, feel free to post and ask for it.



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Post by Kit » Thu Dec 01, 2005 7:29 pm

Only go to the funeral if your girlfriend asks you or if you ask her and it's ok. Other wise - it can be....disrespectful(?) because you aren't family and that is family time. I don't know. I do with you luck and I'm sorry for your loss.



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Post by Toy Soldier » Thu Dec 01, 2005 7:31 pm

It sounds like you are trying to be supportive for your girlf which is nice. Have you asked her if she wants you to go to the funeral with her? You know, to support her. Shes going to need support, especially around a difficult time like this. So offer a shoulder to cry on if she needs to and be there to listen to her, etc.



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Post by Dave_19 » Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:03 am

Originally posted by sbloemeke@Dec 1 2005, 04:01 PM

Are you still going to TH?

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Post by Dave_19 » Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:07 am

i would ask about the funeral but i don't like bring up the subject cause it gets her all sad :(. but if she asks me to ,i will.
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Post by Barbies are Evil » Fri Dec 02, 2005 6:50 am

i'd go to the funeral anyway. I think she'll need you there, wether she knows it now or not.
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Post by sbloemeke » Fri Dec 02, 2005 9:44 pm

If you know it or not, if you bring up the subject with her, she will appreciate it a lot. She's grieving, and it will make her sad, but it will be appreciated. If you ask when's the funeral, she'll see you really care.
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Post by Dave_19 » Sat Dec 03, 2005 3:52 am

i was drunk and depressed in the chat room and they banned me from chat then i got angry and said something about it and they put me on a bann where i can write but no one can see my posts. then i made a post about well since no one can see what i post and i put some pictures of suicidal bears and she banned me for good. fuck i hate helen



anyways thx for the posts i will ask her about the funeral tomorrow. wish me luck.
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Post by sbloemeke » Sat Dec 03, 2005 12:34 pm

Good luck! She will appreciate it, and probably for years. I still appreciate what my friend did back when my Grandfather died on my birthday... And your girlfriend will do the same thing. It shows support and concern.



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Post by Barbies are Evil » Sat Dec 03, 2005 2:53 pm

guys.......so not the place for TH bashing.....so not appropriate
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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Post by Dave_19 » Sat Dec 03, 2005 5:38 pm

i got her a card today and she gave me a hug and said thanks. i asked about teh funeral and she said that her dad wanted it just to be a small family thing but she could ask, but i told her it' was ok and she didnt; have to worry about it.
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Post by Barbies are Evil » Sat Dec 03, 2005 5:41 pm

ok, that's cool........just be there for her.......that's all I have to say because from my experience that's what helps the most.
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)







And I'm going to extremes



Tomorrow I will change



And today won't mean a thing



I'm a bitch, I'm a tease



I'm a goddess on my knees



When you hurt, when you suffer



I'm your angel undercover



I've been numb, I'm revived



Can't say I'm not alive



You know I wouldn't want it any other way



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