I've noticed something that kind of bugs me sometimes. Not just here, but on other boards as well, there will be a debate, and I will make a point/state an opinion, and no one will respond to it. People who debate with me, why is that? I feel ignored sometimes because of it. Are my points stupid, or good or what!?
TJ
Didn't really know where to put this, thought Why Me! would be best.
Why?
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First of all I am sorry that nobody responds to you. (i kinda have the same problem, which is why I recently have devoted most of my time to responding to people who have low reponses or none at all) Sometimes, especially on a site as big and well known as this it is very very easy to be overlooked. and most people dont just click a link to see someones post so they can see everyones. the title of the post captures their eye. Maybe one thing you could do is make a title that is so interesting you cant help NOT respond to it. I dont know what else I can say to you to make you feel less ignored other than well...I'm sorry you've been made to feel that way. I dont think anyone should ever feel ignored under any circumstance. and if it makes you feel better now that I know you have these feelings I will make an effort to always respond to you. I will make an individual effort to make you feel less ignored and more cared for. (I'm sorry if that came out all stalkerish i didnt know how to put it though)
Love Always,
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Love Always,
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Heh, well thanks for the help 
but it seems that I am in big debates, and my responses kind of get skimmed over. It's been bugging me halfway for a while, so I figured I would vent.
TJ
but it seems that I am in big debates, and my responses kind of get skimmed over. It's been bugging me halfway for a while, so I figured I would vent. TJ
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i dont really like to get into debates with people. but im sure if i saw one of your posts i would probably reply, i just dont like those kinda things ya know? well hopefully the ppl that do will start to respond to you more and its good to vent and let ppl know how you feel.
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I feel that way sometimes... 
Sorry, if I ever ignored you... I don't think we ever talked... uh..Late night comes are you home?
No you're not.
You're out with urge to satisfy yourself it's your vicious plot.
Looking back I realize that it's my fault.
I'm not around so your love comes to a halt.
You have no remorse in you.
It's the only thing you know.
You destroy me every time you little cunt.
I never wanted this.
Gave myself to you to get paid back with lies.
Every time I trust you I lose in the end.
I feel disgust in myself.
I love how you can call me and pretend you're innocent,
While I'm out here trying to better myself.
You're a pig when it comes to my emotions.
You drown me in your wake because you have no devotion.
You have no remorse in you.
It's the only thing you know.
You destroy me every time you little cunt.
I never wanted this.
Gave myself to you to get paid back with lies.
Every time I trust you I lose in the end.
No you're not.
You're out with urge to satisfy yourself it's your vicious plot.
Looking back I realize that it's my fault.
I'm not around so your love comes to a halt.
You have no remorse in you.
It's the only thing you know.
You destroy me every time you little cunt.
I never wanted this.
Gave myself to you to get paid back with lies.
Every time I trust you I lose in the end.
I feel disgust in myself.
I love how you can call me and pretend you're innocent,
While I'm out here trying to better myself.
You're a pig when it comes to my emotions.
You drown me in your wake because you have no devotion.
You have no remorse in you.
It's the only thing you know.
You destroy me every time you little cunt.
I never wanted this.
Gave myself to you to get paid back with lies.
Every time I trust you I lose in the end.
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girlyluvR4life
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People who debate with me, why is that? I feel ignored sometimes because of it. Are my points stupid, or good or what!?
your points are your points. ppl cant say that are good or bad because everyone is biased and have their own opinions. i mean yes, many of your posts are great and infomative, but you seem to be very strong-willed and proly many ppl( like myself) feel fairly intimidated and almost SCAAARED to debate with you. i dunno what others think tho
I'm a gardener of TWO KINDS baby 
someone PLEASE knock a hole n my head, i can't wait to kiss this "life" goodbye.
someone PLEASE knock a hole n my head, i can't wait to kiss this "life" goodbye.
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Me, intimidating? 
Muahahaha. Hahahaha I'll admit I do have strong views, but I assure you I won't think any less of someone who shares thier views. Speak up for yourselves! 
Don't worry, I don't bite... unless you want me too.....
TJ
Muahahaha. Hahahaha I'll admit I do have strong views, but I assure you I won't think any less of someone who shares thier views. Speak up for yourselves! Don't worry, I don't bite... unless you want me too..... TJ
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See normally when I don't have anything to say about a post I won't respond, or when I basically agree with what everyone has already said. But there are times when I know other people do not agree with me but people don't respond. But yeah, I know it can be easy to miss posts sometimes
TJ
TJ
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"Be who you are and be that well" --St Francis de Sales.
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Bunches of love Xena.
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I've helped u debate about cloning I think. Sowwy every 1's over looking ur post. I agree that u need 2 make ur started topics titles lots more interesting.
If you need to talk to someone I am here. I will keep everything you say confidential.
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it seems like you are not being ignored now
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"only two things are infinate, the universe and stupidity" - Albert Einstein
"People standing on escalators are a testimony to human lazyness" - Christ Novolestic
"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are" - Kurt Cobain
"Just because your paraniod it dosnt mean there not after you" - Kurt Cobain
"Peddle the ass that god gave you, buy nitrous" - Dave Ghrol