I'm So Dumb
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NeverReallySeen
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I'm So Dumb
lately i've been noticing that my self-esteem has gone really low. this is how i feel about myself: i'm stupid. my grades are awful. they kind of meet the standards for my family, but not for me. no matter what, i have to do better. i feel like a worthless friend. it seems like all my friends are attempting suicide, n i cant do anything to help them. i feel so fat, but i'm really not. i just feel like i should be so much smaller then i am now. i'm always comparing myself to other people. they're better at sports then i am. i just hate myself... n to be honest, i dont know why. i'm so confussed at why i hate myself. i just dont get it?!
To be nobody but yourself in a world thats doing its best to make you somebody
else is to fight the hardest battle you are ever going to fight. Never stop fighting.
You do anything long enough to escape the habit of living,
Until the escape becomes the habit.
Everything is ok in the end.
If its not, then its not the end.
else is to fight the hardest battle you are ever going to fight. Never stop fighting.
You do anything long enough to escape the habit of living,
Until the escape becomes the habit.
Everything is ok in the end.
If its not, then its not the end.
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Re: I'm So Dumb
I know how it feels to be like that...I think I'm fat a lot of the time, but I'm not really...
About the grades:
Just work harder. That's all you can do. Study more, and you'll do better.
Take more time for school and less time for something else like the internet.
About being a worthless friend:
You're not. You can't help how your friends feel. It's not your fault that they feel bad, it's whatever's going on in their lives. Don't take all their stress on you. It's not healthy. Do try to help them though.
About the fatness:
You KNOW you're not fat, so then you're fine! I'm sure you're beautiful! Just don't start up with an eating disorder or anything! If you need someone to talk to, I'm here!
About the grades:
Just work harder. That's all you can do. Study more, and you'll do better.
Take more time for school and less time for something else like the internet.About being a worthless friend:
You're not. You can't help how your friends feel. It's not your fault that they feel bad, it's whatever's going on in their lives. Don't take all their stress on you. It's not healthy. Do try to help them though.
About the fatness:
You KNOW you're not fat, so then you're fine! I'm sure you're beautiful! Just don't start up with an eating disorder or anything! If you need someone to talk to, I'm here!
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Omi
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Re: I'm So Dumb
Originally posted by scared@Feb 4 2005, 11:37 AM
lately i've been noticing that my self-esteem has gone really low. this is how i feel about myself: i'm stupid. my grades are awful. they kind of meet the standards for my family, but not for me. no matter what, i have to do better. i feel like a worthless friend. it seems like all my friends are attempting suicide, n i cant do anything to help them. i feel so fat, but i'm really not. i just feel like i should be so much smaller then i am now. i'm always comparing myself to other people. they're better at sports then i am. i just hate myself... n to be honest, i dont know why. i'm so confussed at why i hate myself. i just dont get it?!
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I think you just answered your own question.
You compare yourself too much with others. You care what others do and how well they do it. There will be a ton of people who are better than we are. At the same time, we are better than a ton of other people too. So... it all equals out, why bother to compare yourself to others. If it makes you to work harder to acheive your goals, a friendly competition is good. But if it makes you feel worse about yourself, dont do it. How well they do it, is their business. We just need to enjoy ourselves while at it. 
