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[SoccerGirl]

Okay so something really wierd is goign on. See my boyfriend lost his bestfriend(who lived in a different province) to suicide last summer, and its been really hard on him!!! SO anways today after writtign exams i asked him what was wrong becuase he looked lost. SO he told me that last night he got an email from his supposlly dead friend telling him he's alive and not to freak out!!!!!! WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!!! why would his parent lie to my boyfriend, what really happened. I duuno what to do b/c if this is some sick joke it disgustes me and how could anyone do this????? I duunno what to do. I want to figure out whats goign on but i dont know how.....Im so fustrated im ready to hack into his account so i know whats goign on!!!! AHHHH somebody have any ideas i know this sound really wierd!!!!!!!!!!

[falling]

if it's over the internet it could be any number of things - i've definitely heard of people claiming to kill themselves then using a new name or whatnot - perhaps it was all a lie for attention or maybe there's another explanation. the parent may have wanted them to have no contact and gone baout it wrong, or they may have run away and they assumed it was suicide but they reappeared - i guess the only way to get any answers is ask the person themselves - there may be an explanation?

[SirPostAlot]

Well if the body was identified and buried, then this is some horribly sick joke...

If it was a close casket funeral where the body was missing, then this could be true, in which, like stated above, there could have been some assumptions or some reasonable explination for the parents saying he is dead...

Just take a breather and think through it logically...think back to the funeral and to the news article and figure out if this could be plausable or if it is just some sick joke...

And if it is a sick joke, thats just sad and that person on the other end needs to mature....



~Jeff~

[falling]

or of course somebody else could have hacked into his account and sent that email

[Beautiful]

Did your boyfriend go to the funeral? Did he see his friend in the casket? If he did then the e-mail was more then likley to be a sick joke, but if he didnt, tell your boyfriend to e-mail him back and ask him a bunch of questions that noone else knew but him and his friend.

[SoccerGirl]

NOT TO PANIC, its okay now found out the truth. See sometimes people make up a friends death for attention, which is wierd but it happens. SO at first i thouight mayeb this was the case b/c i have never heard of his friend before, however it only took me alittle while after we started dating to know it was really true. ANWAYS getting to the point so my b/f was in ottawa when this happened and he got a phone call from his friends parents telling him that he was dead. HOWEVER it seems that he wasn't. He was acutally on life support and his parents and the doctors didnt think he would make it so i guess the parents decided to announce him dead.(In hospital b/c he attempted suicide).

SO since my b/f only knew what he was told he thought he was dead, until he got creeped out when reading this email almost a year later, turns out that his friend was workking to get better and recoverign in the hospital for that time, and after he got back sent an email to him to clarify everything. So ya thats the story. He also called him and they talked I think that freaked him out some b/c he is still not really comfortable with the fact, i thought he would be happy but he seems creeped out out afradi to talk about it but i guess give him tiem right. Well thats the story creepy isnt it! AND if anyone thinks of doign soemthing liek that for a joke that is so sick and you should be ashmaed of yourself!!!

[Beautiful]

Wow, that is really weird, but thats awesome that in all he didn't lose his friend. maybe they'll be best friends again or something, like you said give it time!

[Jesykah ^_^]

Yeah, that really is kinda creepy. Talking to someone that you thought was dead for the past year. Give him time. He'll talk about it when he's ready, and until then, you just have to understand. It's good to hear that he didn't lose his friend though.

[turtbub]

That is more than a little freaky!



I hope their relationship can be the same again...