So my counsellor made it final today that he wasnt able to see me anymore. I knew for a while that he was leaveing his job for another one but there was still a chance that he may of been able to still see me but now all hopes of that are ruined.
I dont want to see anyone new cause im sick and tired of being passed round from one counsellor to another. I find it hard enough opening up to people without being passed around cause no one wants me. My next counsellor that im supposed to be seeing will be something like my 7/8 counsellor in just over 2 years. That cant be normal.
Why does no one want to stay with me that long? How am I suposed to open up to someone totaly new again? I hate having to do it. Maybe this time it will be easier to just not see someone.
Sorry about this I just needed to rant about it.
My Counsellor
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Re: My Counsellor
Oh goodness, Zoe, honey.... I'll phone you tonight (if you don't end up on MSN beforehand) about this, but I'll reply here too.
(I got your text earlier, but had no credit, I was texting too many people about the BBQ yesterday, lol. I'm sorry).
Over the same period I have been through about the same amount, honey. It might not be normal for many, but I think its pretty normal for the services in the area we live in.
I guess, you could try and see the positive side - you get a variety of approaches, and after a while you can select the best ones for you (I did this after a while, as you know, lol).
Its not that nobody wants you (or me, lol), love. Its just that jobs come and go - its not a personal thing.
Perhaps you could tell the next counsellor you see about the problems you have had with your counsellors moving away? They might be able to explain or reassure you about some aspects involved.
As far as opening up to someone new again.... tell them that you find it hard, and they should be able to reassure you and help you through it.
I know that it won't be easier for you not to see anyone - you need to see someone, Zoe. I know that it will all end in tears if you don't see anyone at all.
Don't apologise, love! Thats what HT is here for, and you know that you should never feel bad about ranting to me, either, btw.
Love you, Lena. xx
(I got your text earlier, but had no credit, I was texting too many people about the BBQ yesterday, lol. I'm sorry).
Over the same period I have been through about the same amount, honey. It might not be normal for many, but I think its pretty normal for the services in the area we live in.
I guess, you could try and see the positive side - you get a variety of approaches, and after a while you can select the best ones for you (I did this after a while, as you know, lol).
Its not that nobody wants you (or me, lol), love. Its just that jobs come and go - its not a personal thing.
Perhaps you could tell the next counsellor you see about the problems you have had with your counsellors moving away? They might be able to explain or reassure you about some aspects involved.
As far as opening up to someone new again.... tell them that you find it hard, and they should be able to reassure you and help you through it.
I know that it won't be easier for you not to see anyone - you need to see someone, Zoe. I know that it will all end in tears if you don't see anyone at all.
Don't apologise, love! Thats what HT is here for, and you know that you should never feel bad about ranting to me, either, btw.
Love you, Lena. xx
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Re: My Counsellor
thats really tough. ur right it is soooo hard to open up to new counslers. i find it hard to open up to a counlser even if i have known them for a while. well couldnt u always keep in contact through email or via phone? u never know maybe ur next therapist will be an ever better one. keep ur head up.
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~God created people in his own image; God patterned them after himself Genesis 1:27
~Stop judging others, and u will not be judged. Stop criticizing others, or it will all come back on u. Luke 6:37
~There are "friends" who destroy eachother but a real freind sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24
~A fool is quick tempered but a wise person stays calm when insulted. Proverbs 12:16
~The tounge is a small thing but what enormous damage it can do. James 3:5
~Even if my father and mother abandon me the Lord will hold me close. Psalm 27:10
~Get rid of all bitterness...instead be kind to eachother Ephesians 4:31-32
God bless
Love in christ--chelsea
~God created people in his own image; God patterned them after himself Genesis 1:27
~Stop judging others, and u will not be judged. Stop criticizing others, or it will all come back on u. Luke 6:37
~There are "friends" who destroy eachother but a real freind sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24
~A fool is quick tempered but a wise person stays calm when insulted. Proverbs 12:16
~The tounge is a small thing but what enormous damage it can do. James 3:5
~Even if my father and mother abandon me the Lord will hold me close. Psalm 27:10
~Get rid of all bitterness...instead be kind to eachother Ephesians 4:31-32
God bless
Love in christ--chelsea
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Re: My Counsellor
It is really hard to open up to someone new. and im so sorry you have to. But hun, maybe this is a good thing. Maybe opening up to new people will help you more. I think you should try out a new councler and see how things go. Good luck
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The prettiest people do the ugliest things ~ K. West
Do you pull me up just to push me down again ~Mudvayne
And when Im gone just carry on, dont morn, rejoyce everytime you hear the sound of my voice just know that im lookin down on you smiling and i didnt feel a thing so baby dont feel my pain just smile back
The prettiest people do the ugliest things ~ K. West
Do you pull me up just to push me down again ~Mudvayne
And when Im gone just carry on, dont morn, rejoyce everytime you hear the sound of my voice just know that im lookin down on you smiling and i didnt feel a thing so baby dont feel my pain just smile back